tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post1674634374621199575..comments2023-12-13T09:22:48.668-06:00Comments on The Character Assassin : Recovery and healingSociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-2686359786015027492016-09-05T07:42:10.602-05:002016-09-05T07:42:10.602-05:00I also suffer some PTSD from being the target of a...I also suffer some PTSD from being the target of a sociopath. Although I am healing and becoming stronger every day. But it is hard. Sometimes when I have a little time to myself, I find myself thinking about the things that were done to me to break me down, and silence me, and make me look like I was the perpetrator and the one who was hateful. <br />That is because I would fall for every trap the sociopath set for me. <br />FINALLY -- I realized that I had to stop reacting and retaliating. I had to stop talking about the sociopath to other people and just put out of my life. I hate that I find it hard to relax and have positive thoughts, because any time I have to myself the sociopath creeps into my thoughts and puts my mind in a negative place. <br />But I have come a long way from where I was 4 years ago... The was a time I felt hopeless but now I don't feel things are hopeless. I definitely thing the sociopath is a lost cause and will NEVER change. And I don't even about them changing. I want nothing to do with them, and if they change or not it won't affect me. But i truly believe they can't and don't want to change. there age will catch up with them, they won't be so appealing anymore. The sociopath that targeted me, has been doing horrible things to others for so long, that she can no longer trick and manipulate others anymore. People have been burned or heard of her strange behaviors for 25+ years now she has burnt every bridge she ever had. <br />I'm sure her evilness will never stop. But I do feel content that most people are aware of how this person operates and they steer clear. <br />What I went thru I hope no one would have to go thru. I feel I could of handled being physically abused more so than the emotional and mental abuse that I had to endure. The degrading rumors she spread about me, the defamation, the going my child's school (who was only 6 at the time) and telling teachers and office staff the most horrendous lies about me. I didn't want to even pick up my child from school I was so embarrassed and mortified about the disgusting lies she told them. She made a blog using my full name as the URL, pretending to be me. Portraying me as a crazy, insecure person with a mental illness. It was a hard time in my life. Sociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-78237682883694727912016-09-05T07:22:14.852-05:002016-09-05T07:22:14.852-05:00It would be nice if diagnosing one was so easy. Bu...It would be nice if diagnosing one was so easy. But it is a very hard diagnosis to make. Of course the sociopath is going to lie to any dr or therapist. They are going to play the victim. They have brainwashed their children to defend them and hide their secrets. <br />I've seen it too often. <br />What is so sad is that the real victim gets vilified and the sociopath has the manipulation skills to make the real victim look unstable and crazy. Sociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-10570601442143792202016-07-20T12:43:29.976-05:002016-07-20T12:43:29.976-05:00I loved this article! Any person with real feeling...I loved this article! Any person with real feelings would automatically think let me send this to the "predator" I know hoping it will enlighten them-but then I come back to reality and realize it wouldn't just go in one ear and out the other-it would be rationalized in thier little pea brain how they don't do that or they do it because (you know, the whole excuse thing). These holier than I people are literally destroying others lives. I haven't met one person that wasn't negatively affected by a person like this. A lot of people<br />Don't know this but if your diagnosed as a sociopath you can't have your children-you can't see or talk to them ever-all rights taken away, now that tells us something about sociopaths. I have extreme PTSD from my year long rein of abuse on a sociopath, I can only IMAGINE the mayhem and complete destruction and product of kids raised by one. If you know one and there are kids involved- don't do anything. Let them parent on their own and drown and then save the kids-the more you fight for what's best the more they "want" them. You have to act like you don't want them. Manipulate the manipulator so to speak. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-44971125709619637952016-07-20T12:43:15.520-05:002016-07-20T12:43:15.520-05:00I loved this article! Any person with real feeling...I loved this article! Any person with real feelings would automatically think let me send this to the "predator" I know hoping it will enlighten them-but then I come back to reality and realize it wouldn't just go in one ear and out the other-it would be rationalized in thier little pea brain how they don't do that or they do it because (you know, the whole excuse thing). These holier than I people are literally destroying others lives. I haven't met one person that wasn't negatively affected by a person like this. A lot of people<br />Don't know this but if your diagnosed as a sociopath you can't have your children-you can't see or talk to them ever-all rights taken away, now that tells us something about sociopaths. I have extreme PTSD from my year long rein of abuse on a sociopath, I can only IMAGINE the mayhem and complete destruction and product of kids raised by one. If you know one and there are kids involved- don't do anything. Let them parent on their own and drown and then save the kids-the more you fight for what's best the more they "want" them. You have to act like you don't want them. Manipulate the manipulator so to speak. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-75942291707056142662015-09-30T06:34:47.844-05:002015-09-30T06:34:47.844-05:00I hear ya. But I don't believe it can be elimi...I hear ya. But I don't believe it can be eliminated. It is what it is. If more people are aware of the psychopath, they could possibly save themselves from years of torment. Sociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-82643882642451458272015-08-12T02:26:56.177-05:002015-08-12T02:26:56.177-05:00People are often fascinated by it because they bel...People are often fascinated by it because they believe in research on the disorder because it is hereditary. They think that we can perhaps eliminate them from the gene pool. Forever.Dark Lordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15923443021879186728noreply@blogger.com