tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post2471868967252761167..comments2023-12-13T09:22:48.668-06:00Comments on The Character Assassin : Malicious Co ParentingSociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-41706966294187427762016-12-04T09:54:48.011-06:002016-12-04T09:54:48.011-06:00Oh my goodness! I thought I was the only one! Thi...Oh my goodness! I thought I was the only one! This blog literally just sent chills down my spine. My spath continues with these types of advances...EVEN though we have another open court case (his doing) I've declined his requests repeatedly, he's tried to have me arrested, the list of why not goes on and on. It amazed and confused me so much that he would honestly think that I would agree to such. The only way he will agree for my child to go to counseling is IF the three of us go TOGETHER. He does not get that I want NOTHING to do with him. I only want my child. And each time he makes these advances and I decline, it pisses him off even more...he cannot take the rejection, yet he subjects himself to it. The lack of boundaries is unbelievable to me. I feel desperate to be heard. I feel desperate to be understood and believed. I feel like no one fully understands the magnitude of damage this has done to me. They just tell me to ignore it, that I have to grow thicker skin. That it's MY fault, I allow him to do it because I don't stand up for myself. I'd only they understood...You can't take that from mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11069554465727074841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-29560419902876922882016-04-02T02:37:41.719-05:002016-04-02T02:37:41.719-05:00I am dealing with one now even though he is in jai...I am dealing with one now even though he is in jail but he calls non-stop and has made threats of violence because he no longer has control over me. He is annoying as hell so it's easy to ignore him. Godisgoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03503543626717111342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-18984829045608770372015-11-05T06:14:44.181-06:002015-11-05T06:14:44.181-06:00You must live your own life. No contact with him. ...You must live your own life. No contact with him. Do not tell him you are dating. Important not to introduce your children to anyone you are dating for a while. The wknds your ex has the children, that is when you date and spend time with others. Do not tell the ex your plans or current life. Make yourself as unappealing and uninteresting as possible to your ex. Appear to look as if you have No life. That you are doing nothing but being depressed. Only appear this way to him. His goal is to Break you down. Let him believe he has. But do not be broken, live, date and go out on the wknds he has with the children. If things get serious with someone you are dating, then act accordingly. But take everything ONE DAY AT A TIME Sociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-31370213005232484032015-11-05T06:09:50.856-06:002015-11-05T06:09:50.856-06:00As californiagirl stated, what kind of help are yo...As californiagirl stated, what kind of help are you looking for? Dealing with sociopaths, is extremely difficult. But after what they have put you thru, you will feel alone and lost. It's important to get help or support from friends, family or a therapist, and get yourself emotionally healthy. If parental alienation is occurring, you must handle it as stable minded as possible. Sociopaths and Their Path of Destructionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15318935028080096415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-31041858820994701042015-11-03T14:55:53.484-06:002015-11-03T14:55:53.484-06:00We understand this. What help are you looking for...We understand this. What help are you looking for?californiagirlincanadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18374697849743054489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-74166604753772324442015-10-06T14:21:25.016-05:002015-10-06T14:21:25.016-05:00I need help.I am the target parent of parental ali...I need help.I am the target parent of parental alienation Please somebody help me.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15374550923612376914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906231217381710627.post-23799770029257194172015-09-22T00:04:07.237-05:002015-09-22T00:04:07.237-05:00I'm going through this very thing right now! ...I'm going through this very thing right now! My ex is crazy and will not leave me alone. Nobody will believe what i tell them . He is now trying to get full custody. He lies to everyone. ..the lawyers the judge! He sat right in front of them and lied on the stand. He's trying to destroy me as he promised. My girls are devastated and having issues. I need help! Please! If i try to date he does background checks on them he goes to their exes (if they have one ) and tells them terrible things trying to get them to run me off.he's had me followed by a private investigator. . .. my children and I need help! He makes 3xs what I make .. I don't know what to do Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02042231729500848584noreply@blogger.com