Saturday, January 24, 2015
Never feel guilt about removing TOXIC people from your life.
It doesn't matter if that person is a blood relative, childhood friend, romantic partner, the mother/father of your children, a parent, a co-worker, or anyone who you at some point in your life were “close” to.
—You do not have to keep people in your life that cause you pain, make you feel inferior, lie to you, and belittle you.
It is one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and takes responsibilty for the things they have done, then they make a conscious and genuine effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings over and over again, takes advantage of you, and uses you for their own selfish reasons, you must remove them from your life. These types of people will not leave willingly. They see any kindness on your part as weakness. They prey on those who they see weak. They ignore your request, they violate your boundaries and they are relentless in tearing you apart.
Remove these individuals - they will never change. They don't want help. They can't be cured, nor do they want to. They are toxic, infectious parasites. They will suck the life out of you, if you let them.
Sunday, January 18, 2015
Millions of people are impacted by a sociopath or sociopaths. They cause so much damage, one wonders if the damage really ever heals. Does the anxiety ever really go away - even after the sociopath is gone? Do you ever learn to trust again.
You can. And you will. It will take time. Time heals. It will take strength on your part, to let go and release all the pain and fear. You have to relearn how to love, and how you deserve to be love. You are worthy of unconditional love. The sociopath takes a lot from us. But they cannot take our spirit or our soul.
Keep your head up.
Monday, January 12, 2015
Sociopaths may look human like us. They have a body like us, they have faces like us, but they are not like us. I believe being human means to have the higher intelligence than that of a primal animal. Being human means to have a conscious, and feel empathy for our fellow man. Love is part of being human.
Since sociopaths lack a conscience and are incapable of demonstrating and feeling real empathy or remorse, it is hard to classify them in the same category as us.
Sociopaths are primitive, like wild animals and act on primitive survival skills like wild animals. Sociopaths seem to be more of like reptilian snakes than humans. We know snakes and wolves kill to survive. Wild animals such as lions kill to provide to food for their young and their families. The sociopath destroys others, not for the anyone but themselves. They do it out of pure hatred and spite.