If you are a Normal person, with a heart. You can't win against something made purely of hatred and now as an adult is pure evil. Remember a sociopath doesn't do hateful things to protect themselves because they have experienced pain in their life. They do HATEFUL things because they simply like to see the pain in others eyes. They feel proud if they can breakdown a strong person. If the person has accomplished many things the sociopath is even prouder of their evil work. SOCIOPATHS ARE EVIL. THEY DONT ALL KILL AND THEY ARE NOT ALL SERIEL KILLERS. BUT THEY ARE ALL RUTHLESS HATEFUL LIARS. THEY ARE TERRIBLE MOTHERS WHO VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY HURT THEIR OWN CHILDREN, ELDERLY PARENTS AND ANYONE ELSE. Everyone to the sociopath is prey, ready to be used and abused.
My suggestion is get as far away from them as you can. Leave everything you had with them behind. I have fought for my child and lost because the sociopath is so convincing in court. She is a woman also. What I have learned that if You give them enough rope, they will hang themselves eventually.
The sociopath that targeted me for so long, has hung herself. Metaphorically speaking. She has lost any support within community. Everyone knows from dealing with her she is nothing more than an old washed up druggie. Unreliable, dishonest, scandalous. My child hates her now and lives with me. It took years to get to this point. But I left the whore alone and she used up all her resources. She even had the nerve to try to come back to me and as for help. I laughed at her. She looked like an old bag lady. She lost all her looks. She looks 70 and she is in her 40's. Everyone that sees her tells me how horrible she looks. My child says she took them to the stores with a flip flop and high heel on she was so whacked out in drugs.
She is a loser, it will take time but I promise revenge against a sociopath is not the answer, they are so self destructive. Just let them hang themselves. They will. That is a fact.