Female Monster

We all know a sociopath is a person without a conscience, who doesn’t feel empathy or affection, although they are excellent at pretending and faking it. When combined with intelligence, a sociopath can rise to the heights of society and become or a successful CEO of a major company, or even the city's district attorney/prosecutor.  It’s much easier to grab power when you have no qualms about hurting others, or no moral code whatsoever. Most sociopaths are not killers, they just tend to wreak havoc on the lives of those around them.

Sociopaths manipulate, lie and scheme against you. They think nothing of spending countless hours on their computer making up false websites in your name or writing about you in blogs to discredit and ruin your character. They will tell anyone and everyone lie after lie about you. Your reputation will be in ruins by the time they are done. All sociopaths have no remorse. They do not feel sorrow when they destroy your life. In fact they feel a sense of accomplishment. And if they are able to bring down someone who is wealthy and successful, they feel very proud of what they have done. 

While the average person is working an honest job to support their family, and throughout the day they are thinking of the people they love, like their children, husband, parents, friends. A sociopath is not capable of having any emotional connections with anyone. So she spends her time scheming and manipulating ways to take you down and destroy you either literally or figuratively. In order to survive the sociopaths emotional abuse, you must remain consistent, and stop all contact with them.  You must change your phone number, if you are able you should move to a different area. And tell only trusted people where you live.  Do not let the sociopath fool you a second time with her charm. Although she will claim that she has changed, DO NOT believe this person has changed. Remember sociopaths can not be rehabilitated.  They cannot change. They are pathological liars, and will always be manipulative and self serving. 

Take steps to protect yourself and your family. Consider drastic solutions like moving, changing jobs and making new friends. Life is all a game to the sociopath. She does not care if you're hurt. She will always pretend to be the victim, and prey upon people with kind hearts and compassion. The sociopath wants to win at all cost. 

The only way you can beat a sociopath is to get away from a sociopath. Accept the harsh reality that sociopath cannot and  do not change.  They are ruthless, heartless, hateful, 

vindictive, and dangerous. 

To a sociopath, you are just an object to be used. You are their source of money, sex, housing and even though she says, "I love you," and "I'll never do it again," the words mean nothing. Her sole 

objective is to take everything you have, emotionally, spiritually and physically and materially. Once you realize the person you are with is using you, you must cut your losses and GET OUT ASAP. If you're FORTUNATE enough to not have married the monster, you don't have children together, and you don't work together. You can just walk away and never see the whore again. But many situations are more complicated than that. If you have to deal with divorce or child custody, expect it to be nasty and the one of the most challenging experiences you will ever go through. The sociopath does not actually care about you or the kids. She only wants to win, and make your life miserable as miserable as possible. She wants to humiliate you, and portray you are a horrible human being, her goal is to destroys you before you can speak the truth and expose her for the monster she really is.  

Female sociopaths are more dangerous than males

Male sociopaths are dangerous, but female sociopaths are even more dangerous. Our society has more protections available for female sociopaths than the males ones due to traditional norms held by society. Generally, women are viewed as nurturers, caregivers, compassionate, and the primary pillars holding up their families. However, in reality, there are a lot of women that fail to meet those standards. They get joy from breaking down others, playing mind games to deteriorate a person’s sense of worth or get people to join their mission. These women are treacherous, remorseless, 
leeches, narcissistic, and lack the ability to emotionally connect with others. Thus, making them a danger to their significant other (or husband), children and anyone of their targets (or projects). Dr. Robert D. Hare, a psychopath expert and an author ofWithout Conscience The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us, “believes that about 1% of the population fits the profile of [sociopath], 
and male [sociopaths] are 7 times more common than female [sociopaths].

Female Sociopaths are much more subtle, covert, and manipulative than their male counter parts. They wouldn't dare pick another sociopath as a partner. They prefer men who are kind, compassionate, forgiving, and have the ability to feel guilt. They choose someone that is stable and hardworking, so that they forgive their affairs, or so that they can use their children as pawns against them the rest of their life to get what they want - money, bills paid, etc... Basically the father will be taking care of the children, and the mother wants the status quo of "wonderful doting mommy" while she does nothing.

Healthy, real relationships are built on mutual respect and trust; they are based on sharing honest thoughts and feelings. The reason the sociopath is so dangerous because she Is able to convince you that you are being in an honest thoughtful and genuine relationship, for as long as she must until it's yo late.. Then when you realize what you are dealing with and what has happened you are so confused, so scattered, trying yo put together the pieces, she is tying up any loose ends to destroy your creditability you may use against her..

Dr. Hare goes on to say that the psychopathic bond can take place very quickly, sometimes within hours. That means it could happen over coffee, drinks, in a business meeting or, as Dr. Hare mentions, on a cross-country airplane trip.

The abandonment phase begins when the psychopath decides that their victim is no longer useful. They abandon their vicim and move on to someone else. In the case of romantic relationshps, a psychopath will usually seal a relationship with their next target before abandoning their current victim. Abandonment can happen quickly and can occur without the current victim knowing that the psychopath was looking for someone new. There will be no apologies for the hurt and pain they cause because psychopaths do not appreciate these emotions.