Showing posts with label why do sociopaths waste our time. Show all posts
Showing posts with label why do sociopaths waste our time. Show all posts

Monday, May 12, 2014

Sociopath and their games


  • They like to retain control
  • They do not like exposure
  • They are secretive because of the above
  • They do not think that they have done anything wrong
  • In  their own mind, they would prefer to shift the blame onto you. They never take ownership for any of the shit they do..
  • If you take them back, they will pretend to have changed for a little while. But they haven't changed. They start to cheat and lie again. They take their abuse up a notch or two. 
  • There lack of an answer is a clear indication they are lying. - they are always lying - incapable of the truth 
  • They have a sense of entitlement that they can behave in that way - and never face any repercussions. 
  • They do not want to go over the past

The most important one of all, is that they like to keep control. They do this by playing tricks and mind games. Keeping you guessing. But if you refuse to play their game then they will move on, and find another victim. 

Even a sociopath who has suddenly discarded you without warning, will not let go of trying to control you. You would think that perhaps they might. Especially if they have found another person to abuse, lie and cheat on. They will pretend that they have good intentions. So they keep you hanging on. This gives them control over you whilst you are waiting for answers. 

Don't fall for their tricks and don't play their games. Cut off all communication. Never respond. Better yet. Get another phone number. Let them text and call you - using your old number. And rarely check it. If the sociopath knows you have blocked or changed numbers. They will seek to find the new number and continue to harass and stalk you and waste your time. 

That's all sociopaths do is Waste our time. So many people have lost so much of their life because of a relationship with a sociopath. And they have to waste time picking up the pieces that the is left after the sociopaths destruction. 

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

The difference between Sociopaths and Psychopaths

Of the more distinguishing traits of the sociopath is that they tend to be less organized in his or her demeanor – they are actually nervous acting and easily agitated – someone likely living on the fringes of society, without solid or consistent economic support. A sociopath is more likely to spontaneously act out in inappropriate ways without thinking through the consequences.
A psychopath on the other hand is more cool, calm and collected ( not all of them – some are recluses, and withdrawn). The psychopath is smart, and not easily angered. They have no soul, it's not easy to get one worked up when they have no soul.  The psychopath tends to be extremely organized, secretive and manipulative. The outer personality is often charismatic and charming. They wear a mask or sanity and normalcy, but behind the mask is an evil, chilling, cold blooded monster. The psychopath mimics behaviors that make them appear caring, kind and trustworthy. Most people would have a tendency to trust a psychopath rather than the sociopath.
The psychopath has an organized personality and this gives them the advantage to be better educated than the average sociopath. The sociopath lacks the attentive skills to excel in school, the sociopath also never finishes much of anything they start. 
The psychopaths can fly under the radar of society, many maintaining families and steady work, a sociopath lacks the skills and drive for mimicking normal behavior. The sociopath is unable to have a stable family life ( behind closed doors). Most sociopaths will be on their 4th-5th marriage before the age of 40.  If the world – is lucky the sociopathic/psychopathic female be sterile, barren and infertile, and unable to bring children into their sick perverse, dysfunctional world.

The sociopath’s crimes are typically disorganized and spontaneous, while the psychopath’s crimes are well planned out. For this reason, psychopaths are harder to catch than sociopaths, as the sociopath is more apt to leave ample evidence in his or her explosions of violence. The sociopath is lazy and rarely cleans up their messes. While the psychopath is clean, calculated, and will cover all tracks.

Both the psychopath and the sociopath view human beings as objects to be used and exploited. The simple answer for the difference between a “psychopath” and a “sociopath” is 
           A psychopath thinks 2+2=5 rather than 2+2=4. A sociopath knows 2+2=4, 
           but hates to admit it, and usually won't. They will argue that 2+2 is 5 just for 
           the sake of being difficult and wasting everyone's time.