Sunday, February 9, 2014

Revenge Against the Sociopath...

My advice for others is if you are going to expose a sociopath, make sure you have the most very solid of evidence to use in any sort of court case, because they have zero qualms about lying and trying to ruin your life. They will lie and do it convincingly without hesitation. To a sociopath Lying is as natural as breathing.. They are able to lie when under pressure or stress and maintain composure and be cool and calm. I personally feel that sociopaths are capable of such mental and emotional damage, that it is not worth it to try to expose them. They have done you very wrong. Left you in ruins. Yes, one would want revenge. But when dealing with a sociopath the only way you can win is to forget about them, never speak to them again. Change your email and your phone number. Then begin to pick up the pieces of your life and start LIVING AGAIN...  

Best to go NO CONTACT when a sociopath is involved. When you respond to sociopath you are taking their “bait”. They want you to respond, they want a response or emotional reaction. This is how they take up all the spare time they have. So don't give them what they want. You have probably given them enough. They have taken enough of your life. Don't allow them to take anymore...
The sociopath, of course, will continue a life of destruction with or without you.. Eventually, she will target the wrong person.  Someone who will fight back. This person may one day try to contact you to find out what you know about this disordered individual. Then, in a calm and collected manner, you can describe your experience, provide evidence that proves a pattern of behavior, and contribute to some type of justice whether  it’s getting the individual prosecuted, exposed in the media, or just ruining her efforts with yet another potential victim.
It's natural and normal to want revenge against a sociopath. The things the sociopath has done to you has forever changed you, who you are, and what you believed. You want justice. You want your old self back. You must heal one day at a time.  And not waste anymore of your life. Thinking about revenge means that the sociopath is still controlling you. Don't allow it. Put them out of your thoughts. Just call the years you were with the sociopath a "loss" and cut your losses and let it go.


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