HELL on EARTH - Being the Ex-spouse of a Sociopathic Narcissist

Being the victim of a sociopath can be pure hell. Especially if the sociopaths is an express that you share children with. Or if the Sociopath is your new spouses ex that they share children with. The harassment of you and your spouse seems to never end. They use the children against you. They spread lies about you. They tell the children’s teachers, the children’s friends parents, what a crap parent you are and it will spread rumors about you and your new spouse or girlfriend.

They do this to socially destroy you. To ruin your life. And anyone who is in your life that you love.

You must disengage from the dangerous Sociopath. Sometimes it is not always realistic to go totally “NO CONTACT”  when you have children.
So in order to minimize their ability to exploit, deceive, manipulate and harm you.
You must detach, distance, and disengage.
The Sociopath thinks because you share children together, that they can talk to you every day, send you harassing messages. When you tell them that if it is not concerning the children, and you have nothing to say to them. The sociopath will make up stories about the children to you, just so they can talk to you, the only reason they want to communicate with you is to make your life difficult. 
The sociopathic narcissist wants to control you in every way they can. And they are going to do this by using your children, that you love, against you.

They will use the children as their greatest weapon against you. They will deny you access to your children, they will tell you how bad of a parent you are, they use guilt, they will do anything and everything to try to stay in contact with you in order to maintain control over you.
Once you go no contact with them. They become desperate to make contact with you, it will become an obsession for them. They will make up lies about the children, saying things like one of the children has been diagnosed with a serious medical condition, one of the children is so upset about the way they are not communicating that that child needs therapy. When the child really does not know what is going on. Unless the Sociopath has told the child something, but you as a loving parent have not involved your children and letting them know what an evil mother or father they have.

Do not rely on any information the sociopaths gives you. Always verify all information concerning the child’s health with the child or with your child’s doctor, teachers, counselors. You will more than likely find that everything that the sociopathic narcissist told you was UNTRUE. 


DO NOT CUT THE SOCIOPATH ANY SLACK!
Do not put up with their harassment. If they continue to harass you and call you, and you have told them that you refuse to deal with them because everything out of their mouth continues to be alive. Tell them that you only want to communicate with them through an attorney. But not directly. And then blocked their number from your phone.
This will in rage the Sociopath, they will become obsessed with getting you to respond. You will get text message from random numbers, that the Sociopath has found online to text you with. They can become dangerous, even moThis will enraged the sociopath, they will become obsessed with getting you to respond. You will get text message from random numbers, that the Sociopath has found online to text you with. They can become dangerous, even more so than they already are..

Always remember that narcissistic sociopaths take pleasure and making other peoples lives difficult, and watching them suffer... 

Dealing with one of these individuals is HELL on earth.

Exposing a sociopath

It may be difficult to recognize a sociopath because such a person is overly charming, and seemly wanting to help others – but the sociopathic traits are present below the surface. You may have to dig a little deeper to recognize the signs. 

Some sociopaths will go on for years without being caught. They get away with the evil and chaos they cause by family believing them to be mentally ill with a psychiatric disorder such as Bi-Polar, Depression, Mania, or Drug Abuse... 

The family rather believe that their blood is mentally sick and cannot help what they do, rather than believe their loved one is evil, who has no heart and no soul and is capable of damaging and abusing others for their own entertainment. 

It only takes that ONE person, and outsider who has been welcomed in (usually an Empath) to see through the sociopath and see that they are not mentally ill they are not depressed.

THEY ARE JUST EVIL. THEY ARE MALICIOUS AND VINDICTIVE. THEY SEE THAT THIS PERSON IS NOT A GOOD PERSON. The person who sees the sociopath for exactly what they are, usually become willing to risk everything to make sure that the sociopath is exposed and can not hurt anyone else. 

The sociopath is manipulative and everyone who is catering to them and obeying them is their puppet. It will take that ONE person to stand up to the sociopath and point out what they see. They risk being attacked by the sociopath and all the sociopaths minions. They risk their reputations being ruined, and lies spread about them by the sociopath. This attack will be hard, especially if the person is an Empath. Being that the Empath is sympathetic, loving, and feels everyone else's emotional pain. 

Fortunately for the  Empath - the Sociopath and Psychopath have no emotions, except anger and rage. So the sociopath is unable to manipulate the Empath.  The sociopath is the only person or thing that the Empath feels no empathy for. The Empath is smart and caring and lives life with passion and a purpose. This is a disadvantage for the sociopath. They have no love in them, and no passion. That is why they waste so much of everyone's time. They are living for nothing. They exist only as a bi-product of the devil... 

The Empath sees the evil, the damage the sociopath has done, the lives the sociopath has destroyed and the pain and suffering the disordered has caused so many people. 

It is basically Good vs Evil...

I do not advise anyone go against the sociopath. Unless the sociopath is directly affecting their life, and hurting their children, spouses, or family members. It's best to avoid and have NO CONTACT with the sociopath. If you suspect that the person is a sociopath, stay the fu*k away from them. You have no idea what danger you are putting yourself in by just being friendly to them. Don't get involved in a friends drama with a sociopath, because you will be their next target. 

The only reason to expose a sociopath and fight one, is to protect your child, or loved one.. I.e. – spouse, parents, siblings. 

Fighting a sociopath is a fight you will more than likely not win, because nothing can obstruct the will of the sociopath. 

I have seen very few cases where the sociopath was taken down. In those few cases the sociopath was older than 40 and they already had a tainted image. Due to years of deceit, failed marriages, uncollected debt, dysfunctional 
behaviors, lying, and having burnt every bridge they ever had. In this case, a good person stands a chance to expose the sociopath. 

Just because a sociopath is exposed does not mean that they will stop hurting others. Their focus will change and the person who exposed them will be their new target. Making others aware that this person is a sociopath or trying to destroy their life, will help the person out. Because when the sociopath starts telling their lies on their smear campaign — NO ONE WILL BELIEVE THEM