Tuesday, July 22, 2014

More Cruel than they are Crazy

Sociopaths are more cruel than they are crazy. They know exactly what they are doing and what they are not doing. They are bat shit crazy — but they are not insane. (If that makes sense). 

They are aware of the pain and suffering that they cause. In fact they are intentionally causing it, and getting pleasure from doing it. They love to make people feel fear. It gives them a sense of empowerment. They are vicious, cruel, harsh, mean-spirited people. They have no real emotions. They are empty, soulless vultures...

Sociopaths aren't easy to spot. Most of the time the only people who recognize that the person is a sociopath or some other kind of disordered person, it is their family or spouse. 
Sociopaths have a way of covertly manipulating those around them to be quiet about their illegal and abusive behaviors. They try to tolerate the abuse and lies. They eventually get use to the sociopath leaving for hours, even days at a time, and the abuse and they try to ignore and act as if everything is ok. Because to confront a sociopath will start a war. And usually the spouse and family is so exhausted with the abuse and lies, they just turn the other cheek. 

It tasks something drastic for the victim to actually leave the sociopath. The sociopath will eventually leave the victim once they have drained the life out of you. And you serve no other purpose for them. 
Sociopaths do not care about anyone. 

It's best to Go No Contact with an ex who is a sociopath. They will do desperate things to in an attempt to get a responce. By responding they feel like they have won, and winning is EVERYTHING to them.
They will try to talk to you by text or phone. Your lack of response will cause them to be angry. After that doesn't work they will even try to be nice. (But you know that it is only temporary) once the sociopath gets what they want they go back go being assholes. 

Besides being mean and evil. Sociopaths are crazy-makers. They make the victim question if maybe they are going insane. But they are not. It is the sociopaths who are crazy. 

Sociopaths will try to convince others that their victim is crazy as well... By making up nasty lies about the person to everyone. Blatant lies. There is not even any true behind the lie. They just think of what scares them and then they accuse their victim of those exact things. I.e. – If a sociopath is stalking you, they will accuse you and there you are actually the stalker. 

I have been stalked by a sociopath. And currently still am being harassed, stalked and prank called frequently by a sociopath. It's not sorntbing that anyone wants to deal with but when you are a target of a sociopath. It is very hard to get them to leave you. Basically they usually have to find a new target in order for them to leave you alone. 
**And even then they may still become bored and decide to give you a call or send you a text message that makes no sense. Just to shake you up and bother you. (once you are use to the sociopath and are able to see through all their bullshit - their text messages and calls are just annoying)

Some people are totally unaware the person they are with is sociopath. They just think their partner is nucking futs! Or they are suffering from bi-polar disorder or some other mental illness. 
There are other people who end up believing that they are the one with the problem. They sociopath is such a skilled liar and manipulator – they can convince their partner that they are not the one who is sick, but it is the partner who has issues they need to work out. 

Here are few things to try and remember if you may suspect your partner is a sociopath or narcissist. 

• You constantly second-guess yourself.

•  You wonder frequently if you are a “good enough” partner.

• You have trouble making simple decisions.

•  You wonder, “Am I being too sensitive?” or "Am I over reacting?"

•  You think twice before bringing up innocent topics of conversation.

• You frequently make excuses for your partner’s behavior to friends and family.

• You actually start to think the constant criticism is ok, because you think, “What doesn’t kill me will make me stronger.”

• You feel as though you can’t do anything right

• Your kids start trying to protect you from being humiliated by your partner.

• You feel hopeless and joyless.

Everyone deserves to BE happy. Being with a narcissist or a sociopath you will never be happy. They are miserable human beings that are hard wired to destroy others. They cannot be fixed. They WILL NEVER CHANGE. No matter how much LOVE you show them, it will never be enough. They are unable to receive love. Unable to give love. All they really know how to do is lie, hurt, cheat, degrade, and cause chaos and pain.

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