Exposing a sociopath

It may be difficult to recognize a sociopath because such a person is overly charming, and seemly wanting to help others – but the sociopathic traits are present below the surface. You may have to dig a little deeper to recognize the signs. 

Some sociopaths will go on for years without being caught. They get away with the evil and chaos they cause by family believing them to be mentally ill with a psychiatric disorder such as Bi-Polar, Depression, Mania, or Drug Abuse... 

The family rather believe that their blood is mentally sick and cannot help what they do, rather than believe their loved one is evil, who has no heart and no soul and is capable of damaging and abusing others for their own entertainment. 

It only takes that ONE person, and outsider who has been welcomed in (usually an Empath) to see through the sociopath and see that they are not mentally ill they are not depressed.

THEY ARE JUST EVIL. THEY ARE MALICIOUS AND VINDICTIVE. THEY SEE THAT THIS PERSON IS NOT A GOOD PERSON. The person who sees the sociopath for exactly what they are, usually become willing to risk everything to make sure that the sociopath is exposed and can not hurt anyone else. 

The sociopath is manipulative and everyone who is catering to them and obeying them is their puppet. It will take that ONE person to stand up to the sociopath and point out what they see. They risk being attacked by the sociopath and all the sociopaths minions. They risk their reputations being ruined, and lies spread about them by the sociopath. This attack will be hard, especially if the person is an Empath. Being that the Empath is sympathetic, loving, and feels everyone else's emotional pain. 

Fortunately for the  Empath - the Sociopath and Psychopath have no emotions, except anger and rage. So the sociopath is unable to manipulate the Empath.  The sociopath is the only person or thing that the Empath feels no empathy for. The Empath is smart and caring and lives life with passion and a purpose. This is a disadvantage for the sociopath. They have no love in them, and no passion. That is why they waste so much of everyone's time. They are living for nothing. They exist only as a bi-product of the devil... 

The Empath sees the evil, the damage the sociopath has done, the lives the sociopath has destroyed and the pain and suffering the disordered has caused so many people. 

It is basically Good vs Evil...

I do not advise anyone go against the sociopath. Unless the sociopath is directly affecting their life, and hurting their children, spouses, or family members. It's best to avoid and have NO CONTACT with the sociopath. If you suspect that the person is a sociopath, stay the fu*k away from them. You have no idea what danger you are putting yourself in by just being friendly to them. Don't get involved in a friends drama with a sociopath, because you will be their next target. 

The only reason to expose a sociopath and fight one, is to protect your child, or loved one.. I.e. – spouse, parents, siblings. 

Fighting a sociopath is a fight you will more than likely not win, because nothing can obstruct the will of the sociopath. 

I have seen very few cases where the sociopath was taken down. In those few cases the sociopath was older than 40 and they already had a tainted image. Due to years of deceit, failed marriages, uncollected debt, dysfunctional 
behaviors, lying, and having burnt every bridge they ever had. In this case, a good person stands a chance to expose the sociopath. 

Just because a sociopath is exposed does not mean that they will stop hurting others. Their focus will change and the person who exposed them will be their new target. Making others aware that this person is a sociopath or trying to destroy their life, will help the person out. Because when the sociopath starts telling their lies on their smear campaign — NO ONE WILL BELIEVE THEM

The difference between Sociopaths and Psychopaths

Of the more distinguishing traits of the sociopath is that they tend to be less organized in his or her demeanor – they are actually nervous acting and easily agitated – someone likely living on the fringes of society, without solid or consistent economic support. A sociopath is more likely to spontaneously act out in inappropriate ways without thinking through the consequences.

A psychopath on the other hand is more cool, calm and collected ( not all of them – some are recluses, and withdrawn). The psychopath is smart, and not easily angered. They have no soul, it's not easy to get one worked up when they have no soul.  The psychopath tends to be extremely organized, secretive and manipulative. The outer personality is often charismatic and charming. They wear a mask or sanity and normalcy, but behind the mask is an evil, chilling, cold blooded monster. The psychopath mimics behaviors that make them appear caring, kind and trustworthy. Most people would have a tendency to trust a psychopath rather than the sociopath.

The psychopath has an organized personality and this gives them the advantage to be better educated than the average sociopath. The sociopath lacks the attentive skills to excel in school, the sociopath also never finishes much of anything they start. 

The psychopaths can fly under the radar of society, many maintaining families and steady work, a sociopath lacks the skills and drive for mimicking normal behavior. The sociopath is unable to have a stable family life ( behind closed doors). Most sociopaths will be on their 4th-5th marriage before the age of 40.  If the world – is lucky the sociopathic/psychopathic female be sterile, barren and infertile, and unable to bring children into their sick perverse, dysfunctional world.

The sociopath’s crimes are typically disorganized and spontaneous, while the psychopath’s crimes are well planned out. For this reason, psychopaths are harder to catch than sociopaths, as the sociopath is more apt to leave ample evidence in his or her explosions of violence. The sociopath is lazy and rarely cleans up their messes. While the psychopath is clean, calculated, and will cover all tracks.

Both the psychopath and the sociopath view human beings as objects to be used and exploited. The simple answer for the difference between a “psychopath” and a “sociopath” is 

           A psychopath thinks 2+2=5 rather than 2+2=4. A sociopath knows 2+2=4, 

           but hates to admit it, and usually won't. They will argue that 2+2 is 5 just for 

           the sake of being difficult and wasting everyone's time. 

           

The Aging Narcassist

The narcissist ages without compassion or grace; she is shallow and does not accept her aging well... Her body is withered with age, plastic surgeon can't tuck or nip enough to make her look like a woman again. Her deceptive overworked mind betrayed her at the same time her body has.  She stares in disbelief and rage at mirrors which show her who she really is. The female narcissist ages prematurely and finds herself in a time warp. Where she is in a constant struggle with becoming old and drifting into a midlife crisis. When she was a child prodigy, a sex symbol, a successful prosecutor, or an outstanding intellectual-the narcissist was at the center of attention. She had everyone eating out of her hand — so she believed...  Now she has become disillusioned in her old age as her old charms have worn thin. Her charisma is gone. She can no longer manipulate with big pretty eyes. Her eyes look worn and her skin is leathery.. 

Growing old requires grace and courage.  Aging is a series of physical and mental insults that you have to take in stride or you become an unpleasant burden to yourself and those around you.  Grace and courage are not traits the narcissist possesses at any age - ever. So the lack of these virtues becomes all the more apparent as she grows old. Old age points out and highlights what you’ve been all your life. The narcissist is hideous on the inside and out. Midlife proves that 

Having been exposed for what she is-a deceitful, treacherous, spiteful egotist-the narcissist’s old tricks now fails her. People are on their guard and less gullible than before. The narcissist, with her rigid personality, can’t change. She reverts to old habits, old behaviors that use to get her what she wanted, only to fail. No one believes her lies, no one respects her, no one cares about her anymore.  She has alienated any family, children or “friends” she ever had. She surrenders to former temptations. She is made a mockery by her stubborn denial of the reality of aging, by her stubborn refusal to grow up, an eternal (brat) child in the sagging body of an old woman.

The narcissist is singularly maladapted to life’s trials and tribulations. Time tends to make brilliant people lose their magic, lovers exhaust their potency, and philanderers wear out their appeal. After the age of 40 the narcissist becomes more average and boring and less appealing.  The wider the gap between her pretensions and her actual accomplishments, the more she is the object of derision and contempt by others who have learned to see through her facade. And after 40 years in the same small town or community, everyone sees who she really is. Everyone knows what deception she has done and lies she has told. She is alone. Because she has screwed over everyone. She is hated. 

She will try to convince herself she is adored. But she knows that people avoid her. They refuse to talk to her. They hate her. She can see it when she looks at them. 

Few narcissists bother to maintain a business, keep their jobs, raise functioning families or nurture their friendships. Narcissist end up bitterly alone having squandered the love of spouse, offspring and friends.  The contrast between the prime of her youth and her now look of ruin presents a constitute of permanent narcissistic injury. The narcissist retreats deeper into herself to find comfort and consolation, withdrawing deeper into her grandiose fantasies and delusions. They are deprived of any qualities that would make them content at this time of their lives.  The decrepitude of their character is reflected in the decrepitude of their aging and sagging bodies.

For the aging female narcissists, it is too late. They initiated the demise of business partners, spouses, and former friends– who are now enemies. The narcissist has burned so many human bridges. She has betrayed, abused, demeaned, and humiliated countless human beings. Some narcissists have even destroyed their own children as a result of repetitive abandonments, degrading criticisms and malicious agendas.

The female narcissist dies alone. She has no one to count on or to check on her. She is a horrible human being til the day she dies. 

Sociopaths in the Work the Place (adult bully)

    Sociopaths are dangerous and wreak havoc their victims and family. Sociopaths do not just harass their family, ex's, "friends", and others involved with them. They are also adult bullies. Especially in the work place. They do not fight fair. They want to eliminate any competition. 

    People with healthy minds, and healthy personal boundaries have confidence in their abilities and are secure with who they are. They do not feel the need to slander, degrade and assassinate an associates character, just to ensure that the person does not "steal" their position or job. They know that they are efficient at their job, and new employees/colleagues do not threaten them. 

The sociopath is so insecure, that everyone is a threat to them. They bully new employees because they see them as weak and vulnerable. The new guy is an easy target because no one knows them. The sociopath is able distort how others think about the new employee, by spreading lies and gossip about them. The sociopaths works harder to exploit others, than they work at their job. 

Some traits of a Sociopathic Adult Bully —

• Jekyll and Hyde personality – Dr Jekyll is “charming” and “charismatic” ;  Hyde is “evil”
• Exploits the trust and needs of individuals. Sociopaths not only exploit their family, ex's, and their own children for personal gain. They also exploit, slander and damage the reputation of their co-workers and colleagues.   
• Pathological Liars – Convincing and compulsive lying.  Will make up anything to fit their needs at that moment. (Watch for someone who is giving too much details about why they didn't do something or did do something) {justification, excuses} 
• Damages reputations of individuals and organizations and businesses. Ex. - will speak poorly 
• about a nursing home in order to exploit money from the business, usually the sociopath knows owner of the business personally or is related to;  knowing their financial situation.
• Reacts to criticism with Denial, Retaliation, Revenge,  Slandering any person who confronts them, Playing the Victim;
• Blames the victims; vilifying the victim, to elicit pity from others and make the real victim look like a bully. 
• Apparently immune from disciplinary action. Feels they are better than everyone else; feels above the law. Doesn't believe that the rules and regulations apply to them. Points the finger at others 
• Relentlessly harasses and stalks the victim, until the victim feels defeated. Then the Sociopath will move onto a new target when the present one (victim) burns outs, or leaves; because the harassment, emotional abuse, and verbal assaults become to severe.

                                               

Most cases of workplace bullying involve a serial bully, to whom all the dysfunction can be traced. A person who is being bullied may already know, or come to realise that they have a string of 

predecessors who have either:

• left unexpectedly or in suspicious circumstances;
• have gone on long term sick leave with some sort of psychological problem, and never returned;
• taken unexpected early or ill-health retirement,
• have been involved in a grievance or disciplinary or legal action;
• have had stress breakdowns;
• been over-zealously disciplined for some trivial or non-existent reason.

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If you are being harassed, stalked or assaulted (verbally or physically) by an adult bully. Document everything they say to you, email to you, text you, and tell others about you.  Try your best to ignore them until you have enough evidence and documentation to take to your boss and show them how you have been harassed, and slandered by this person. The Sociopath excels in lying and conning others. So it is important you have documentation and proof. 

Without saved information and documents the sociopath will discredit you, and turn the blame on you and you could risk losing your job... 

Never underestimate the Sociopath. They are always scheming, lying and causes emotional damage to people. They have no conscience, which makes it easy to destroy the life of another, without giving it 2 thoughts. They feel no remorse or guilt for any problems they create or for anyone they destroy. 

Emotional blackmail - sociopath/psychopathic individuals

Sociopaths aka Psychopaths aka Emotional Blackmailers make it nearly impossible to see how they’re manipulating us, because they lay down a thick fog that obscures their actions. All the while, if we attempt to fight back, they “ensure that we literally can’t see what is happening to us.”

The Sociopath — will often take the intimate, embarrassing moments of your life that you have shared with them and any secret they know about you (only because they manipulated you into believing they could be trusted, by charming you and gaining your trust, only so that you will feel comfortable enough to confide in them - then they will have something to use against you when they need or want something. They sociopath does not care about you. They want you to think they care about you. 

That way when they fear they won’t get their way or you may tell them no, they use this intimate knowledge to shape the threats that give them the payoff they want.... This is because they are evil. Mean spirited. Vindictive. Hateful. Dangerous. Callous and Cold Monsters. 

                                

                                             The Sociopath is a 

Sadistic Predator. Who preys upon the kind, the weak, the vulnerable 

and the elderly. They are insecure and know deep down inside that 

they are not good enough to pick on strong confident people. They fear that those are the people who will see right through their facade. The strong person with a healthy set of boundaries is capable of exposing them for the filthy slime they really are.

Emotional blackmail is how the vicious sociopath gets what she wants. 

The emotional blackmail is how she threatens people covertly to get what she wants. An example of how a sociopath thinks is: If you don't behave the way I want you to, you will suffer. The sociopath might threaten to use knowledge about a person's past to ruin her reputation, or ask to be paid off in cash to hide a secret. And if you still do not comply after threats. The sociopath will not only use private information they know about you, but they will make nasty lies just for fun. 

The sociopath does all this just because they didn't get their way.... They are willing to destroy another human life ALL BECAUSE Someone Told them “NO”. 

Normal people accept that people will not always do as we want them to. They simply accept and respect the rights of others. When a person is disordered and has mental illness and personality defects such as sociopathic personality disorder, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, or sadistic psychopathic personality disorder. They are emotionally retarded basically. They still act like a 2 year who is throwing a tantrum at the age of 50. It's really sad to watch, unless you are their target. And you realize this is NO 2 year old. “This is a dangerous person who is going to try to harm me.”

Stay away from the sociopath. She is dangerous. She will destroy anyone who threatens her position of power (which is all imagined in her crazy brain - she actually has no power). 

Sociopathic women start to get worn down with age. They have less creditability and no 

real friends. They usually have alienated their kids, or they have alienated their children's 

relationship with the healthy parent. Everyone distances themselves from the sociopath. 

They want to be far away from the evil, consciousness, cold blooded sociopath. So any connections or acquaintances the sociopath has {including any children} people will make the choice to distance and stay away. They realize that the sociopath is so toxic, that they put themselves at risk of more abuse to even speak with the sociopath, or live in the same town with them. 

I know a guy who is currently in the process of moving up north just to get away from his sociopathic ex wife. She has harassed him, annoyed him, slandered  him, ruined his reputation, threatened him so many times.  Although he has been divorced from this witch for over 7 years - she calls him everyday, sends novel long text messages everyday and since they are not physical threats - the police can't help.  So he has lived in fear of her pulling a Betty Broderick for the past decade. 

He is taking such drastic measures because nothing else has worked. The NO CONTACT RULE has not worked. No matter how much he ignores her, her calls only get more crazy and scary...

Remember Sociopaths will harm you and violate you in anyway they can. These people do not have a conscious. They feel no remorse or guilt. Therefor they are capable of anything 

Revenge and Slander - How A Sociopath will Silence You.

Anyone who has been a target of a sociopath knows the evil they are capable of. We know that a sociopath may not murder your physical body, but they will slaughter you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They will wear your down with their relentless tactics of manipulation, and lies.  They basically mind fuck you - where you end up feeling like you are the "crazy one".  

Some people have no idea what a sociopath is.  They think "Ted Bundy", "Charles Manson", and "Wayne Gacy". Which those sickos were all sociopaths/psychopaths. They are just the worst kind. Sadistic sexual sociopaths. And most sociopaths are sadistic, and are sexually aggressive (even the female sociopath). Some are just not obsessed with killing as much as others, and are able to control their sick urges.  But ALL sociopaths wreak havoc on the lives of others, they are all pathological liars, they are all con-artist, they all lack remorse for the pain and suffering they cause. They are ruthless, conscienceless, calculating, incapable of love, and filled with rage and hate.

Those of us who have been a target of a sociopath, and recognize them for the twisted person they are, we know that sociopaths are not the confident assholes they pretend to be. Again it 
is one of the many mask they wear. But they are actually insecure, pathetic, and jealous people. They are jealous of things they see a "friend" has, that they do not have. They feel they deserve to have that as well.  And once they decide they want something, they will do whatever they have to in order to get whatever it is they desire, even if they have to steal, lie, or destroy the person who has what they want. 

Sociopaths do not want the truth about them to be known, that they are insecure, malicious, and devious people.  
Sociopaths have a deathly fear of being exposed and rejected. That’s why they compulsively LIE, even if the truth would be more beneficial, their brain is hard wired to LIE. 

If people were to find out how evil, corrupt, and sinister the sociopath actually is. How would they be able to manipulate people to do what they want? If others were to know about their true nature, they would lose the support of all the people they have managed to brain wash, elicit pity from, and the people who believe their sad story. 

Therefore when a sociopath feels someone is a threat to them, or may be aware of what they are, and could possibly expose them. That is when the sociopath will have a strong motivation to attack the 
person, discredit them by any means necessary, harass, and ruin whoever presents arguments and facts that might tend to raise questions and doubts about the sociopaths behaviors and their false 
statements.

They use blaming to control others, in order to harm the targets they viciously attack, often it is their own family members or former love interests.

Sociopaths will seek revenge relentlessly and engage in distortion campaigns (smear campaigns)  to control and manipulate others into having false beliefs about the victim. By the time the victim of the smear campaign is aware of it, it is too late and he or she may have already been trashed and their name drug through the mud, and their character has already been completely assassinated and lied about for several months, even years to the point that anything he or she says or does will somehow be interpreted as evidence of them (the victim) being the problem. When in reality the victim has done nothing. TO KNOW WHO IS THE VICTIM, AND WHO IS THE SOCIOPATH, LISTEN TO WHO SEEMS TO HAVE THE STORY THAT IS ELICITING PITY AND SYMPATHY FROM OTHERS - that is your sociopath... They will even act as if they care about the person they 
are claiming to be " unstable and crazy".  

If You ARE THE TARGET OF A SINISTER SOCIOPATH, THAT IS TRYING TO 
DESTROY YOUR REPUTATION and cast you as irrational or downright crazy.  BE 
STRONG. KNOW THE MONSTER YOU ARE DEALING WITH, AND REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE CRAZY ONE. NO MATTER how bad the sociopath has portrayed you, or the lies they are spreading. 
You know who you are. 
YOU don't know who the sociopath is, AND YOU DO NOT WANT TO!
IF you WERE to FIND out ALL THE SCHEMES, CRIMES and DEVIANT ACTS they are doing it would PUT YOUR LIFE IN DANGER! If the sociopath were to think you knew about all their scams, they would do more than slander your name, in order to keep you from talking. THEY WOULD SILENCE YOU FOREVER!

Remember that all sociopaths are dangerous. They have no conscience guilt or remorse. They don't feel bad for anyone.  They don't feel shame for the heinous acts that they commit. Never underestimate the sociopath. They blend in just like you and me. The blonde, smiling soccer mom sitting next to you could be a sociopath. 
Females even more so than their male counterparts are less likely to be thought of as something 
so evil as the sociopath, making them even more dangerous. They can cause even more damage 
than the male, because of the way most people view women, which is as care takers nurturers, mothers, wives, and humane. But 
the female sociopath is far from it. 

Slander by a sociopath

This is an example page a buddy of mine has saved that an ex wife wrote about him in order to ruin his reputation and assassinate his character. He has documented everything she has done to him, said to him and posted on the Internet since before they were even divorced. He was worried to divorce her because he knew she would attempt to destroy him. She was having an affair. But like most sociopaths — she felt that she was entitled to have an affair while married and her husband not to say a word about it.  She didn't care about the hurt it would cause the children. She still doesn't care about the harm she causes them by speaking so negativity about him