You can't beat a sociopath but a BiGGER Sociopath can

Living well is the best revenge you can get on the sociopath...

Do not try to get the sociopath back for the harm they have caused you and your family. The truth is “NOTHING CAN OBSTRUCT THE WILL OF A SOCIOPATH”. You will fail if you are a normal person with a conscience. It's best to accept what happened to you and LEARN from it. But you must let it go. You are not going to get closure from a sociopath.

The reason we have a hard time letting go of the emotional harm that the sociopath causes is because they don't feel bad for what they did to us. They even continue to cause us more harm, well after they have slandered our name, stalked us, made us feel helpless and afraid. They are dangerous individuals.  Sociopaths are notorious for spreading lies, and attempting to destroy a person spirit, career, reputation, and life. 

The sociopathic predator turns on the charm, or plays the victim, and tries to convince everyone that you are mentally unstable. 

• The best way to deal with a sociopath is knowing the person is a sociopath. Which most people associate the word sociopath with killers, rapist and those who commit sadistic crimes. They do not think the blonde, blue eyed, soccer mom is a candidate. In this particular situation (involving a female sociopath) usually takes an intelligent person on the outside looking in at the situation to identify what is going on.

I will not sugar coat this any. Because I have been targeted by a sociopath and I know the pain they cause. I have done my research. I realize that most people don't understand what a sociopath is until they are the victim of one. The sociopath can be anyone, and once targeted by one, you are going to lose everything. 
The only thing that can beat a sociopath is a bigger sociopath/psychopath. This means- only a person who is more cold and calculated, more heartless, smarter, and more physically at an advantage, while also lacking any conscience can take the "everyday sociopath" down. (Do not go searching for a bigger sociopath to take your textbook sociopath down)  Yes your chances of defeating one yourself is slim. But you put yourself in more danger by searching for an befriending someone you think is worse than the current sociopath you are dealing with. If you are lucky the sociopath will eventually target the "wrong" person - being the "bigger sociopath".  That will be the sociopaths demise. 
You will not see the sociopath demise, especially if you have no contact with them. And that is fine. The only reason you might see the demise of your sociopath is if you share children with the sociopathic slut. Then you have no choice but to deal with the sociopath occasionally. Knowing that you cannot beat the sociopath, you will get the advantage of seeing her slow demise when she has targeted a bigger sociopath accidentally. The sociopath is a bully and will target many people in her life. Eventually she goes after the wrong person. Due to drug use, and aging she is not as strategic as she use to be. A sociopath will not admit that her life is shit and she is losing all control of things she once had a strong control over.
All of the sudden she is not in control anymore. She is somehow exposed for a majority of her fraudulent dealings. Her career is what the “bigger” sociopath goes after first. The bigger sociopath will not stop until her career is destroyed. (The bigger sociopath has connections and has contacted people in high places that have the power to shut her down). Then the bigger sociopath goes after her finances. The bigger sociopath will figure out where and who she is getting money from and contact those sources. Until she no longer is financially secure. The bigger sociopath doesn't care in the least the impact it has on her children or her way of living. (Remember the bigger sociopath IS IN FACT A SOCIOPATH AND HAS NO 
CONSCIENCE OR REMORSE). The bigger sociopath is doing to the everyday sociopath what he/she has done to you! The bigger sociopath will not stop until the little sociopath loses all power and control they once possessed.  The bigger sociopath is able to take the
 typical everyday sociopath down. But DO NOT FORGET THAT THEY ARE STILL A SOCIOPATH. AND YOUR SOCIOPATH MESSED WITH THE WRONG PERSON – a more horrible person than them.... But the bigger sociopath has targeted the innocent before, and they are not a hero.  They are just doing what they do. Someone targeted them and they are fighting back, and they will win. 
The every day sociopath has no idea why their luck has turned and who is targeting them. They do not know they just f*cked with the wrong person. Because the bigger sociopath is able to cover all their tracks and unable to be exposed or discovered 

I have actually seen this happen to a friend of mines ex wife.  She caused so much chaos and problems. Used the kids against him to hurt and manipulate him. She tried to assassinate his character, and would just tell lies about him to his childrens school.  He paid her whatever she wanted just to get her to leave him alone. Then all the sudden she was exposed from stealing from clients and family. It was like it all just started going down hill for her. She lost her job. Was even publicly humiliated by having her name on the front news of the paper. Rather it was for the money she was stealing from clients, or for the hot checks she was writing. It was in the paper for everyone to see.  My friend had nothing to do with his ex wife spiral downward. We have come to the conclusion she picked the wrong person to target. Now she is an unemployed loser, and every time she tries to come back and regain trust in the community – but is unsuccessful. I'm assume a bigger sociopath is responsible... 

That's karma —

Control and Exposure - Evil Females

   
                  

   Sociopaths FEAR 2 things -
     They fear losing control...
           They fear being exposed....  

When a sociopath is not in control they literally lose it - lose their minds that is.
They want to be in control of everyone and everything at all times. When they feel that 

they are losing control of someone or something they will go to desperate measures to get that control back. Sociopaths feel a sense of entitlement to everything. That includes people. Even when you divorce a sociopath or they divorce you they still feel that they have the 
right to control you. This is especially true if you have children with one. 

If you have children with a sociopath your life will be forever chaotic, The sociopath feels they own you and they had the right to control you, and they will use your children to do 
that. None of your child-support money will ever go to the children. The sociopath will 
always ask for more money but no matter how much money you give them - it is never enough. They always want more. You cannot buy a kind word from the sociopath. You cannot give them enough money to leave you alone. Giving them money made by you a 
small  amount of peace - But that peace will not last long... Before they are asking you for 
more money.. This applies more so to the female sociopath then to the male.

Female sociopaths are different than the male sociopath. Female sociopaths are rarely detected and they blend in very well. The reason that they are rarely seen a sociopath is because of the way society views women. Most of us believe women to be kind, nurturing caregivers. It would rarely cross our minds to believe that women are capable of such horrible acts.  

 Most females sociopaths are not violent. They do not commit acts of physical abuse. (that is in my personal experience and what I have seen - but I'm sure there are some out there, that are very capable of violence. The female sociopath will destroy you from the inside. She will stop at nothing to tear you to shreds, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. She will start by destroying your character. Making sure your reputation is so damaged. That no one will believe a word you say. She will
 try to turn your family and friends against you. She will try to turn your children against you.  

She will play the role of the victim. She will tell everyone you know, she knows, including  acquaintances, and even strangers - about how terrible you treated her when you were together.   When the truth is she was the real abuser the entire marriage. She is verbally abusive, not only to you but to her family members.  She is a serial cheater. No matter how good you are to her she will to cheat with many men, just for the thrill of it. 

Sociopaths tend to get bored easily. They do not want to work for anything they have. They want the nicer things in life,  but they are not willing to work for them. But that does not mean that they are not determined to get those things. When a sociopath wants something they will go to the extremes to get what they want. It does not matter who gets hurt, or who they have to teardown, run over or destroy -- the sociopath will stop at nothing to get what they want. They don't mind using their own children to manipulate people to get what they want. 

If you are unfortunate enough to have children with a sociopath. Then you will be their main source of supply to getting what they want. Sociopaths love to 

make others feel guilty. They will try to make you feel guilty by using your own children against you. For example they will say "little Jimmy doesn't feel like he has nice shoes like the other kids at school." "I don't want him to feel like he doesn't fit in, do you mind giving me an extra $100 bucks, so I can get him a new pair of nikes, and maybe some socks?" Many people fall for this guilt tripping at first. And that is okay because that only verifies that you are human (unlike the sociopath) and you have compassion and a good heart. 
But you will learn soon enough that little Jimmy never comes home with a new pair of shoes. And when you ask him "did your mother get you new shoes?" He will say no. And when you look at his feet you will notice that there is nothing wrong with the shoes he has (that you bought for him a month ago). You will probably find out that little Jimmy never said anything to his mother about wanting new shoes to fit in. 
Yep... Every single word of what the sociopath told you about your child needing new shoes was a lie.. And you will quickly find out that everything the 
sociopath tells you is a lie. 

This is when you start to question about what the sociopath told you when you were together. Was every single bit of it a lie? Yes...sadly it was. After the divorce from the sociopath, you begin to look back and try to remember. That's when you come to the realization that the entire relationship was all a lie. That the relationship itself was never real.. It is hard to accept this fact. It is hard to accept that you were in a relationship for so long and you wasted so much of your time when the entire thing was all fake. You realize that you never meant anything to the Sociopath. That there was never a relationship. Nothing you had together was real. This person never loved you. 

It is a very hard fact to swallow. Unfortunately it is true; the sociopath is unable to love. The sociopath lacks that emotion. They do not feel love empathy, compassion for anyone. The next person they are in a relationship with will be the same. It will not be a loving and caring relationship. It will be a "what can you do for me, what can you give me" relationship.  The sociopath is a taker they are not to givers. They will take take take and never give anything back. I don't know if that is just in their nature or because they lack any good emotion that it is all they know how to do. 

But they will take so much they literally drain the life out of you. They resemble leeches in a way. They latch onto you. And they suck your blood. They suck the life right out of your body. You have no more energy. Your spirit is broken. But does the sociopath care? Does it hurt them to see you in such bad condition. Hell no they do not care. They put you in that condition. They are proud of what they have done. They feel more powerful than ever. That they were able to break you.