Sociopaths and their target

If you have never been a victim of a sociopath. Consider yourself blessed and lucky! Sociopaths can spot an empathic person a mile away. They choose empaths for their partners because the sociopath knows the empath will feel sorry for them, the empath is compassionate, kind, caring and usually trusting. The sociopath sees these traits as weakness, that they can use to manipulate and exploit. 

What really blows my mind is how a sociopath can lie to someone who is kind to them, and trust them. The sociopath has no conscience. They will steal from their own elderly grandmother. They will stab family in the back. They will cheat on their husbands/wives. They will do horrible things to people and never think twice or regret it. They do these things intentionally. They understand it is wrong. They just don't care. 

Sociopaths feel NO guilt when they hurt others. Yet they are always the "victim". They always will tell a sad story, usually blaming their victim. Whatever they did to the victim, is what they will tell others the victim did to them. The victim is taken back by all this. The sociopath is spreading lies and rumors. And basically telling others that the victim is mentally unstable. In order to discredit them, so if their victim tries to tell their story, people will believe that they are crazy becauee it sounds unbelievable. But the sociopath will do things to others, things that are so devious and hateful, that those things have never even crossed the "normal" persons mind. 

Female sociopaths are notorious for spreading rumors that are not true. They will make up something about a person who they have targeted and spend hours and days on the phone or internet to assassinate their targets character. When the target has finally been pushed to their breaking point and retaliates. The sociopath jumps on the oppurtunity to call their target "crazy". They deny everything that the target said about them, play victim. The sociopaths acts like they are not upset with the person accusing them of things, but instead they pretend to be concerned for the persons well being and mental health. 

It can really make you feel "crazy". If you are the target, hopefully you have figured out that everything the sociopath does to you, they do to GET YOUR REACTION. Just so they can say "told you she was crazy, look what she is saying about me."

 

They usually do not stop spreading rumors, ruining the victims reputation, until the victim is completely broken down. They want to their victim to feel socially isolated and rejected and crazy. They know exactly what they are doing, when they are destroying a persons life. They are doing it intentionally. They are calculated and cold. 

Even though it is a hard situation to be in. The best chance of you surviving being the target of a sociopath is to have No Contact. When you stop responding to them it will piss them off at first, raising the cruelty up a notch or two, in hopes to get a response from you. But never give them the satisfaction. Stop looking online to see what they are saying about you, they will say anything to get a response out of you. It's best to close any social media accounts you have, such as Facebook or Twitter.

When you are the target of a sociopath, you must keep a low profile for a little while. It's best to change your number. And even move if you are financially able to. 

No matter what the sociopath says or does to you, do not get lost in seeking revenge. It will make you bitter and hateful. You will become an angry person who is lost. 

Sociopaths are good at playing Victim...

One of the clearest indicators you’ve got a mentally unstable person on your hands is smear campaigning. Smear campaigners carefully use lies, exaggerations, suspicions and false accusations to try destroying your credibility. They play victim, the tell their sob story and how "you" did all the horrible things to them, all while they are did nothing to deserve the horrible things you did to them. When in fact, when it comes to sociopaths ( especially female) they are doing to "you" all the horrible 
things they say you are doing to them. They do this so that your reputation and creditability is 
damaged. The sociopath will cry fake tears and claim their innocence in an attempt to make as many people as possible think their efforts are based not on their vindictiveness, but on upstanding concern.

The sociopath does this because of your refusal to give them what they want. They are angry that you 
will not be their puppet, so in all the only you are "guilty” of is saying no to someone who is, in some way, failing to respect your boundaries, abusing and bullying you for money. Since the sociopath 
refuses to follow the same rules as everyone else, because thy believe they are above the law. 
Sociopaths spread lies and rumors because they are toxic and manipulating. Sociopaths feel entitled to whatever they want, they are sneaky and vindictive. Sociopaths have no regrets when they hurt 
you. They are more than willing to take from you and never give back anything. They are takers, not 
givers. 

NO SATISFACTION COMES BY BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SOCIOPATH. 
BECAUSE IN ORDER TO HAVE FULFILLMENT AND BE HAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, 
THERE NEEDS TO BE A LITTLE GIVE AND TAKE. YOU CANT GET THAT WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A COLD BLOODED SOCIOPATH. THEY USE YOU. ABUSE YOU. DESTROY YOUR REPUTATION IN THE COMMUNITY. DESTROY YOUR FINANCES, AND 
DRAIN YOU MENTALLY EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY.  

Narcissistic Sociopaths will fly into a vindictive narcissistic rage if you dare to question them,  instead of just being compliant with their demands. Sociopaths often have anger management issues and are driven solely by their own selfish wants, with no regard for the rights of others or for consequences. Most female sociopaths have to create drama and conflict wherever possible, and 

they require little to no incentive to do so.  They have difficulty controlling their reactions, and may become intensely angered  by what others interpret to be minor matters. Sociopaths want drama and love to create conflict and make life difficult for everyone around them

Evil Women

Traits of a Truly Evil Bitch -- the sociopathic woman

The female sociopath is evil. Crazy, sadistically EVIL.  She plays an Excellent Vicitm though.  How does she do it? If you have been the target of one of these monsters, like I have you probably had no idea that women like this existed until you met her. 
SHE TARGETS MEN FOR THEIR MONEY. SHE ALSO TARGETS OTHER WOMEN THAT ARE A THREAT TO HER. SO IF YOU ARE AN ATTRACTIVE INTELLIGENT WOMEN - YOU COULD BE ANOTHER POTENTIAL TARGET. Why? Because inside the female sociopath she is so insecure and jealous of other women (especially attractive smart ones) she will try to destroy anyone who crosses her path that could be a potential threat.. Threat being -- The woman is likely to be promoted before her, or could mess up he financial scams. Usually she will target one of many ex's  new girlfriend of wife. IF THIS EVIL BITCH HAS CHILDREN WITH AN EX - NOT ONLY WILL SHE HARRASS HER EX EVERYDAY FOR MORE MONEY, AND TRY TO CONTROL HIS LIFE. SHE WILL TRY TO DESTROY ANY LOVE INTEREST HE HAS. She doesn't want him but she wants to make sure he stays 100%  controlled by her. It takes a VERY Strong woman to stay in a relationship with a man who has children by a sociopath. The women better be prepared to fight for her life. The female fatale sociopath may not physically murder her, but the evil whore will murder her spirit, self esteem, repuation, and her zest for life. The sociopath thinks " How DARE this woman come in and mess up MY LIFE  by marrying MY EX, and making it so he is not under my complete control, I am still using him, I have not bled him dry yet, he still has money left that is mine!"
{YES THIS WOMAN THINKS THIS WAY}

Does this excerpt give you an idea about what you are dealing with? Well, these are just few among the many many masks that she wears, and when she let goes, she still manages to have a soft corner for herself in your heart. So, how do you identify if this 'female' you are interacting with is a sociopath? What are the traits that you should look for? Are sociopaths so easy to identify? Well, if that was the case, then there wouldn't be much of a problem, right? Nevertheless, mentioned below are some points that will help you understand how this sometimes beautiful and attractive predator uses her charms and lies to deceit you; she does it due to a mental disorder but will make you believe that you are the one who is insane! ( not all of them are actually drop dead gorgeous, they are average looking but their charisma is what you feel attracted too, once the female sociopath hits 40 she is looking like a used wash cloth, and it becomes harder to snatch her prey)

This is what the female sociopath looks like inside and after the age of 46 - the whore I know 

SHE BELIEVES SHE IS GOOD - {evil - crazy - and delusional}

Another classic characteristic of a female sociopath is that she believes that she is simply the best, be it in looks, in intelligence, or in taking control of your life! Her self-worth and superior belief is always too high as compared to others. So, if you are with a woman who says, "Why should I be doing this, these things are meant for the lowlifes?" or, "I am so beautiful and intelligent, I don't need 
to do this at all!", then there are chances that she can turn out to be the sociopath you should be away from! Her superior beliefs also make her arrogant and harsh towards others, but if you are the potential prey, she will treat you like there can be no one as sweet as her ... at least initially.

 No Respect for Rules and Responsibilities!

For her, rules are meant to be broken, and responsibilities, why should she even care! She can never follow rules because she is way too impulsive. She cannot overcome temptations, and when she wants something, there is no rule that can stop her. Her actions are never governed by morals and she never thinks about the consequences. Therefore, you can never expect things like planning, focusing, and commitment from a sociopath. If you confront her, she will cry, she will make you believe that she will change, but then you're a fool to believe her words, and she is way too smart for you not to believe her.

STIMULATION JUNKY - She is not only a pill popping, drug user junky!

Another interesting thing about a female sociopath is that she tends to get bored way too easily. You cannot expect stability, or being involved in the same routine for long. Which is why she will change jobs within sort span of time, she will move from places to places living a nomadic life. She needs something new, exciting, and stimulating all the time. If drug abuse, multiple sexual partners, or abusing a person gives her a high, or stimulates her in any way, she will easily do that without giving it a second thought.

She is a Pathological LIAR To GAIN ATTENTION and SYMPATHY 
A female sociopath is called the best actress in the whole world! You act when you need to hide your reality, and she is really good at that. She will lie to come closer to you, she will lie to gain your attention, she will lie to make you want her, she will lie to make you believe her lies and bond with her emotionally ... and when that happens, she will start to manipulate you, she will trap you in her 
stories and talks, and make you believe that all that she is doing is justified, at least from her point of view! She will be dishonest, deceitful and cleverly sly. If you're smart, you should get out as soon as she starts behaving like this.

 She IS A PARASITE THAT WILL FEED ON YOU!  {Literally draining the life out of you}
If you think that she is there with you because she genuinely likes you, think again! Are you the kind of person who is financially stable, who is responsible, who believes in helping and sympathizing with others, and who can forgive and give the 'benefit of doubt'; then probably that is the reason why she is there with you. She indulges in a parasitic living. She will exploit you emotionally, financially, may be even physically to fulfill her own shallow desires. She cannot feel your pain, she has shallow emotions, and although at times, she might appear to be caring and loving, the truth is that she is coldhearted and will be nice to you only if you comply with her wishes and desires.

Read more at Buzzle: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/female-sociopaths.html