Showing posts with label liar. Show all posts
Showing posts with label liar. Show all posts

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Sociopaths are Internet trolls

Sociopaths are Internet trolls. 

   
This troll reminds me of my sociopath, with iPhone in hand!!

The Internet is the sociopaths favorite weapon of mass destruction against their targeted vicitm. Sociopaths troll the Internet because they enjoy making others feel bad. Even if they don't know the other person (persons) 
It is a way they can harass anonymously and terrorize others. All while hiding behind their computer screen. 

Sociopaths are sadist, and love to cause others distress. Normal personalities become upset or feel guilty if they have hurt someone. Not the sociopath. Once they realize that someone is upset, they take advantage of that, by provoking some more.

Friday, June 20, 2014

Domination • Power • Control



Sociopaths
never really let go of their ex's. 
They hang on to their ex by using the children as their Weapons of Mass Destruction. The use the excuse of wanting to co-parent with their ex – all while undermining their ex's ability to co-parent. These types are impossible to co-parent with. They are demanding. Their expectations are unrealistic. They expect you to follow their rules, yet they don't follow of them. 

Convicted criminals who steal out of necessity, or shoot someone who tries to fight them off in a robbery, or commit murder for anger or revenge are better than the sociopath/psychopath. 
The criminal isn’t a threat to anyone else because he doesn’t go around wishing to hurt others or see harm come to them
But the sociopath does - in every waking moment of her sad, sorry existence. The sociopath is a dangerous, a disease spreading low-life. She is the driving force behind her predation is insecurity, greed, entitlement and covetousness. 

Remember; she's not normal. She's incapable of love, sincerity, and in general being a 'good' person. She is incompetent that is why she must take from others to even the score....

The sociopath is spiteful and seeks to destroy you before it's all over with. 
Her objective is CONTROL, POWER and DOMINATION. 
She gets pleasure causing the downfall of others. 

She is socially, morally, and psychologically retarded. 

Although is able to project an image of a perfect person with the perfect life. She is only pretending, she is unable to feel any other emotion than jealousy and hate. She can pretend to be kind and compassionate to ones face —but will stab anyone in the back (even her own mother, sister, relative, children and especially her spouse.). The sociopath starts by starting vicious lies and spreading these rumors to anyone and everyone. She will do anything to destroy ones reputation. She is an online predator, trolling the internet hoping to find a loyal follower to help her spread her venom  anonymously. She doesnt even tell half truths - but she spreads bold face lies so the world will see them. This is how the female sociopath operates. She seeks to destroy a persons reputation.
There are a few reasons she does this:
1. She is jealous or envies her target and want to sabatoge any kind of success the target may have 

2.  She fears that she will be exposed for the ruthless, lying, spiteful, vindictive person she is. So she projects all of her insecurities and fears onto another her target/victim - so the negative attention will not be focused on her 

3. She is just plain EVIL. She gets pleasure from destroying someone. It make her feel powerful and in control. 

Let's face the facts here — THE SOCIOPATH LIVES A SAD LIFE. If you take away the sociopaths only reason for living – which is to hurt others. What else would they have to do...
NOTHING...

The sociopaths existence— There existence is of little important in this world. They contribute nothing to society, nothing to their family and children. They take take take but never give anythjng back. EVER. 

The sociopath will NEVER CHANGE. Ever! 
They will tell you they want to change (if caught beyond denial). But don't expect an genuine apology from the sociopath. They only lie and say what needs to be said in order to fool you again.. 

If you have been the victim of a sociopath - DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. You only fell into the same trap that many others before you have fallen into. 
Sociopaths can be so charming at first. Then after a while they turn on you like a snake.

All the things that have happened to me have happened for a reason. I'm not sure yet why, and still I don't not know the reasons. I do know that dealing with a sociopath  will drain the life right out of you. The sociopath is the ugliest of bullies, because she vilifies her victim. All sociopaths are  manipulative, and pathological liars. They are devoid of a spirit and a conscience. Being targeted by one can either make or break  you. 

I see all my dealings with the female sociopath as a hard lesson learned. Being involved with such a conning and dangerous predator teaches us lessons. We can choose to live in denial about what they did to us. Or we can choose to speak out about what has happened to us. It hurts to be betrayed by anyone who you 'assumed' loved you. But you were betrayed by one of the best con-artist there is.

You should NEVER FEEL EMBARRASSED OR ASHAMED FOR WHAT THE SOCIOPATH DID TO YOU. You ARE NOT at Fault. 
You've been betrayed, beaten down mentally and verbally by Evil. You are a victim. 

The truth always comes out...eventually. Don't try to expose the sociopath, it will blow up in your face. Soon enough the sociopath always hang herself with her own rope. 

IT IS IMPORTANT to GRIEVE but  DO NOT STAY IN “VICTIM MODE” TO LONG. Victim mode is ok for a short period of time. THEN YOU MUST LET GO OF BEING A VICTIM, AND MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE AND BECOME A SURVIVOR.

Forget about Retaliation and Revenge. It will consume you and turn you into a bitter, angry person. 

The Best way to Heal is to Live Well. And never take anything for granted. Surround yourself with the people who love you. 
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. 

YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE. HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.   










Wednesday, January 15, 2014

The Psychopath aka My ex wife and BiGGest mistake

Sociopathic and psychopathic women are some of the worlds greatest deceivers, liars, and con artist.
They seem innocent and confident. They are always charming and precise in everything. In the beginning they will use their charismatic persona to make a great impression on you. They will drop surprise gifts with a smile on their face, without any notable reason. They will talk to you about subjects that are important to you. At times, they will ask you why something is important to you. They are trying to find out things about you - to use it against you later. They are looking for your weaknesses and vulnerabilities. They will ask personal questions, asking as if they care so much - then use your answer later on in order to destroy you with it. 

Know that, even though they seem nice and friendly, Trustworthy and ethical, understand that they are FAR from it. If your skin crawls for no reason while talking to someone, it’s best to get away from them and avoid that person in the future. REMEMBER YOUR LIFE IS AT STAKE. Once involved with this "wolf in sheeps clothing" you are at risk for living a very unhappy life. If you happen to have children with this psychopath, you will spend the rest of your life being bullied, threatened, black mailed, guilt tripped and manipulated. 

The Psychopathic/Sociopathic Personality is extremely dangerous. Not only are they skilled in destroying you from the inside, out, they are also very adept at ruining other’s lives, while using the victim as their own pawn.  There are no limits to what the Psychopathic/Sociopathic personality is capable of. They will blind-side you, even when you feel you have done well to cut him/her off at the pass. When you have trained yourself to think like them, in order to protect yourself. You will never be fully aware of what this individual is doing, until it’s already happened.  Many tend to become more care-less with age. Meaning the older they get, they less cerebral they are, the more lies they have to remember, the more fried their brain is from their careless lifestyle, of drinking and a using drugs. 
Sociopaths will not usually keep there facade up after the age of 40. They begin to slip up, the mask begins to come off and they become exposed. Then once people figure them out - it's over for them. They are reduced to committing petty fraudulent acts, but are unable to manipulate others like they use to - because now everyone has been screwed over or lied to by the sociopath and no one wants anything to do with her. Yet she will still parade around like she is above everyone else. She will usually turn to the Internet to project her lies and manipulation. 



I still remember all the horrific things my ex wife did to me, and that she still is doing to me, and my wife, and my child and even to my step daughter, who is very young. All her extreme manipulation, guilt tripping, blaming, accusing, bullying my wife, and my step daughter. It was when she verbally attacked my step daughter, I realized I was not dealing with a normal person anymore, I was dealing with a monster, who had no conscious and didn't care who she hurt. She was evil. She is a bad human being.  I was and am 100% positive I am dealing with a Psychopath. 
She knows I am no longer the person she "thought" she could manipulate and put down. Even after our divorce, I still did as she told me to. It was my wife who made me realize there was something "NOT NORMAL" about the situation. That ex wives are ex wives for a reason. I did not owe her anything. All I was responsible for was making sure my child was taken care of. She expected me to come to her home in Christmas morning and put together toys for our child, in the house she shared with her new husband (one of the many men she was having an affair with during our marriage) I had a new family and once I remarried my obligation is to my wife. I see my child and he opens the gifts we get him at our house on Christmas. I will NEVER SPEND ANOTHER HOLIDAY WITH MY EX AGAIN. Recently her mother threatened me in a text message, threatening my life. Then proceeded to call my work and change up very important meetings. That's when I knew I had to take drastic measures. Even if it that means taking legal action against her, filing a protection order, it's obvious she doesn't plan on respecting my boundaries or me. She is an evil, conscienceless, lying, and conning Psychopath. 
She has made accusations on my wife. Everything from posting all over the Internet that my wife is obsessed with her. Jealous of her. Insecure. And when my wife had enough she defended herself, which made the psychopath even more fueled to post slander and defamation about my wife.  She was vilifying the real victim. Everything she accused my wife of - was exactly the things she was doing to my wife. It is obvious to me, my wife and the rest of the world who is really insecure and jealous. The psychopath! My wife Has everything the psychopath wishes she possessed. Which is beauty, youth, intelligence, persistence, and what the psychopath really hates about my wife is her kindness, and how liked she is by everyone. The psychopaths actions are so predictable that my wife is afraid for her safety and her daughters. Now the psychopath can finally see that she is unable to manipulate me anymore. I never respond to her. What is the point? Everything she says is a lie, 100% a lie. For. Telling me that my child had cancer, to depression. I communicate with my child, not the mother because she is so insane. 

I have to re-emphasize the fact that I am NOT a Psychological professional of any sort. Everything I post about is from my personal experience with a sociopathic woman, and the information I have found out about my sociopath and sociopaths/psychopaths in general .  I am still learning. I feel it is important to share what i have been through and what I’m learning with others, so hopefully they will not ever have to go what I have been through and am still going through. If I am incorrect in my thinking. I always welcome comments from others, so I can Learn more and here their story as well... 


Sunday, December 22, 2013

My Ex Wife - Satan's Best Creation Yet...

Being the victim of a vindictive, evil and malicious female sociopath, I am aware of exactly how they operate. Considering I married this evil whore twice, and had a child with her. It wasn't until she was having an affair with a man 30 years older than her for 5 years, when I realized how evil this blonde bitch was. She would project and blame me for what she, herself would do; i.e., accuse me of being negative. When she is the most negative person I have ever met in all my 47 years of living on this
earth.  She would gaslight me into believing that when i had a normal reaction to something she 
would do, like being angry and hurt because of her lying and stealing from me, breaking promises to our child to be with her lover, or cheating, she would act as if my reaction was the problem and there 
Was something wrong with me. Thats when I would call her out on her inappropriate and unacceptable behavior. By confronting this soulless monster, I was accused by her of being the 
abnormal. I was the one who is too sensitive, and not acting like a man for being hurt. I was one with the problem. I was the bad guy, I was critical, or always focusing on the negative. 

This is part of the head-fuckery that she put me through. Acting inappropriately, unacceptable, and 
downright abusive, and then trying to turn it around to make it my fault. It's adding insult to injury at that point. Not only did my ex wife intentionally cause pain that I never deserved, all while denying 
that she ever did anything at all. She would try to make it my fault,  she wanted me to blame myself for something that supposedly didn't happen. Yes, re-read that. That is how illogical it is. She wanted to make sure that people thought I was the reason that the relationship failed. When the truth is the there never was a relationship. I wasn't in a relationship with a loving caring human being. I had been manipulated and led to believe I was in a relationship. But now I realize everything about her was fake, unauthentic and a lies. I was conned like many others before me. I can't really say I ever had a relationship with  my monster of an ex wife. There was never a relationship to begin with. I never had a chance. I never saw what happened until it was too late. And now an innocent child was involved.  

I knew it would only get worse from there. And I was right. It's been 8 years since separation and 5 since we were divorced and I still am harassed by her everyday. She uses our child to get things. It worked for a little while but I stopped feeling guilty. I knew what kind of man I was. I loved my daughter and would do anything for her. So I stopped listening to my whorish ex wife's bullshit, calling me a dead beat because I wouldn't give her $250 for gift card she supposedly bought my child's school teacher for Christmas gift.  I am a dead beat for her crap decisions. Knowing she didn't give any gift card. Just another scheme to get more money from me. As of the $3500 monthly in
support is not enough..


I was trapped by this evil monster of a female for so long. I didn't know how to stand up for myself. I didn't know how to get her to leave me alone.  I use to just give her the money. So she would leave me alone.  That was until I met my amazing wife now. We have been together for 5 years. She has stayed with me, even tho my ex wife has targeted her, ruined her reputation. She has stuck it out with me.. She taught me to stand up for myself. My ex wife is unemployed and a loser, and my new wife is the woman who made me see that I was not a piece of shit, my ex claimed I was. That I had more power than I knew. I had just been so broken down my evil bitch ex wife that I lost all confidence. I had been so attacked by her, that I was afraid.
I was afraid of what she may do to my child. Or what she would tell my child lies to make her hate her dad.
But now I am finally free of this psychopath. I give all the credit to my wife now. She stood up to the monster, and that is something no one would do.  It takes a strong person to stand up to any sociopath. But if the person has a healthy mind, and is strong and confident, the sociopath may destroy their reputation but never can hurt their self worth. My exwife would like to believe she is in control. She knows she has lost all control of me. I dont respond to her text.  I ignore her.  My new wife tries to keep peace for my daughters sake, but the ex is so evil there will never be peace.  I had so many years taken away from my life because of my ex wife,

So now I live everyday to the fullest. I know my ex is miserable and she makes her family miserable. And she wants me to be miserable. And wants my wife out of the picture. But that's never going to happen. I feel we beat the sociopath. We did the impossible. By working together, and being a team, and backing each other up. My wife now and me couldn't be happier - well we might be happier if my ex vanished ....