Friday, June 20, 2014
Domination • Power • Control
Sociopaths never really let go of their ex's.
They hang on to their ex by using the children as their Weapons of Mass Destruction. The use the excuse of wanting to co-parent with their ex – all while undermining their ex's ability to co-parent. These types are impossible to co-parent with. They are demanding. Their expectations are unrealistic. They expect you to follow their rules, yet they don't follow of them.
Convicted criminals who steal out of necessity, or shoot someone who tries to fight them off in a robbery, or commit murder for anger or revenge are better than the sociopath/psychopath.
The criminal isn’t a threat to anyone else because he doesn’t go around wishing to hurt others or see harm come to them.
But the sociopath does - in every waking moment of her sad, sorry existence. The sociopath is a dangerous, a disease spreading low-life. She is the driving force behind her predation is insecurity, greed, entitlement and covetousness.
Remember; she's not normal. She's incapable of love, sincerity, and in general being a 'good' person. She is incompetent that is why she must take from others to even the score....
The sociopath is spiteful and seeks to destroy you before it's all over with.
Her objective is CONTROL, POWER and DOMINATION.
She gets pleasure causing the downfall of others.
She is socially, morally, and psychologically retarded.
Although is able to project an image of a perfect person with the perfect life. She is only pretending, she is unable to feel any other emotion than jealousy and hate. She can pretend to be kind and compassionate to ones face —but will stab anyone in the back (even her own mother, sister, relative, children and especially her spouse.). The sociopath starts by starting vicious lies and spreading these rumors to anyone and everyone. She will do anything to destroy ones reputation. She is an online predator, trolling the internet hoping to find a loyal follower to help her spread her venom anonymously. She doesnt even tell half truths - but she spreads bold face lies so the world will see them. This is how the female sociopath operates. She seeks to destroy a persons reputation.
There are a few reasons she does this:
1. She is jealous or envies her target and want to sabatoge any kind of success the target may have
2. She fears that she will be exposed for the ruthless, lying, spiteful, vindictive person she is. So she projects all of her insecurities and fears onto another her target/victim - so the negative attention will not be focused on her
3. She is just plain EVIL. She gets pleasure from destroying someone. It make her feel powerful and in control.
Let's face the facts here — THE SOCIOPATH LIVES A SAD LIFE. If you take away the sociopaths only reason for living – which is to hurt others. What else would they have to do...
The sociopaths existence— There existence is of little important in this world. They contribute nothing to society, nothing to their family and children. They take take take but never give anythjng back. EVER.
The sociopath will NEVER CHANGE. Ever!
They will tell you they want to change (if caught beyond denial). But don't expect an genuine apology from the sociopath. They only lie and say what needs to be said in order to fool you again..
If you have been the victim of a sociopath - DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. You only fell into the same trap that many others before you have fallen into.
Sociopaths can be so charming at first. Then after a while they turn on you like a snake.
All the things that have happened to me have happened for a reason. I'm not sure yet why, and still I don't not know the reasons. I do know that dealing with a sociopath will drain the life right out of you. The sociopath is the ugliest of bullies, because she vilifies her victim. All sociopaths are manipulative, and pathological liars. They are devoid of a spirit and a conscience. Being targeted by one can either make or break you.
I see all my dealings with the female sociopath as a hard lesson learned. Being involved with such a conning and dangerous predator teaches us lessons. We can choose to live in denial about what they did to us. Or we can choose to speak out about what has happened to us. It hurts to be betrayed by anyone who you 'assumed' loved you. But you were betrayed by one of the best con-artist there is.
You should NEVER FEEL EMBARRASSED OR ASHAMED FOR WHAT THE SOCIOPATH DID TO YOU. You ARE NOT at Fault.
You've been betrayed, beaten down mentally and verbally by Evil. You are a victim.
The truth always comes out...eventually. Don't try to expose the sociopath, it will blow up in your face. Soon enough the sociopath always hang herself with her own rope.
IT IS IMPORTANT to GRIEVE but DO NOT STAY IN “VICTIM MODE” TO LONG. Victim mode is ok for a short period of time. THEN YOU MUST LET GO OF BEING A VICTIM, AND MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE AND BECOME A SURVIVOR.
Forget about Retaliation and Revenge. It will consume you and turn you into a bitter, angry person.
The Best way to Heal is to Live Well. And never take anything for granted. Surround yourself with the people who love you.
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.
YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE. HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.