PSYCHOPATHS

Psychopaths are very similar to sociopaths. Both do not have a functional conscience. Both wreak havoc on the lives of their family members. 

Psychopaths are more organized and have more self control than the sociopath. Psychopaths are usually more intelligent than the sociopath. While the sociopath embellishes their professional life and education - convincing others that they are some sort of 'genius'. Psychopath are usually very intelligent, and do not have to boast or lie about their intelligence. They are usually above average intelligence (from my own personal observation)

Psychopaths often have charming personalities. They say what their “victim” wants to hear, in order to gain trust. The manipulation is covert. They have learned to mimic emotion, so they usually appear “normal” to other people. 

Psychopaths are often educated and hold steady jobs.  Some are so good at manipulation and mimicry that they can have families and other long-term relationships. The people who the psychopath considers to be close to them, usually have no idea they are dealing with a psychopath. They know something is just “not right”. The psychopath is so good at deflecting, blaming, projecting, and twisting a situation when confronted. The normal person feels they are the problem, not the psychopath. 

The mental and emotional abuse that the psychopath inflicts on their victims can be permanent. 

After the relationship is over, the victim will need therapy to understand wahh has happened to them, and to be able to get their life back. 

The psychopath leaves their victim(s) in ruins — financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and sometimes even physically. 

The downward spiral of the female sociopath

There is the functional female sociopath (which is only functional or successful for a small amount of time - usually in her late 30's. When she hits 40 her bullshit no longer works on her victims and she has alienated most people in community and it's a downward spiral after that) 

The functional female sociopath is not outwardly violent. She is remorseless, clear-eyed and calculating, she is chameleonic in the extreme, puts on one mask after another, one feigned feeling after another (interest, concern, sympathy, simpering insecurity, confidence, arrogance, lust, even love) to get what she wants.

But none of these feelings are actually something she feels. She is imitating others and how she perceives others to act in different emotional situations. 

Behind closed doors — only her immediate family, spouse and her children see the real monster. The off the wall, crazy, belligerent, threatening, controlling, vile, spiteful, vindictive, obsessed and malicious person she really is. 

It's NOT a pretty picture. 

Serial Cheaters - Psychopaths, Sociopaths and Narcissist

Serial Cheaters usually all have some sort of screwed up personality disorder, such as the psychopath, sociopath, and the narcissist. They are just NOT wired right..

Their empathy synapses just don’t fire. They’re wired wrong. These are the kind of people that sleep really well after they come home from spending all day (or night) from being at a hotel with a married man (that's NOT their husband or wife) They can look at your distress, and see that you are upset or worried - and they simply shrug and look at you like you are crazy for the way you feel.

These are people who have double lives. Multiple affairs, spanning years, decades even. Consequences don’t really register with these folks. When you try to divorce a serial cheater - they’ll just remarry and do the same thing to the next sucker (hopefully their affair partner). They only really want to divorce you on their terms. So getting divorced from these sexually aggressive and dangerous people is never easy. (And God help you if you are unlucky enough to share kids with someone like this)...

These are the people for whom deceit is a lifestyle. Deceit is part of the high. Getting one over on someone. Do these types of people consider their partners feelings? Hell no. They are incapable of actually feeling Love for another human being. They don't even love themselves. That is why they seek pleasure anywhere they can find it. It is physical pleasure only. They will never be able to establish a real emotional and deep connection with anyone - ever...

They are the type who also will never admit that they cheated no matter what. Even after they are divorced and are married to the person they were having an affair with. Some can convince themselves that their actions were justified, others know exactly the wrong they were doing – they just don't care at all. 

I have actually heard a serial cheater say 'that they are now just married to their best friend'  {Example — I just married my best friend of 10 years, after divorcing the man I was married to twice...} 

WTF? Does that make any damn sense??

Of course it doesn't - but the psychopath really believes that all if they write about it on social network, twitter and Facebook, and enough people see it — then people will believe  it! That is so far from the TRUTH. Most people know who is the liar and who is the victim. As much as the sociopath tries to vilify a person - karma has the last word or the sociopath hangs themself with their own rope....

They are unable to see how crazy they sound. In their warped and twisted mind, they believe they have everyone fooled. Everyone is so stupid compared to them. But NO ONE is fooled.. 

Serial cheaters are deeply and profoundly screwed up. You would be an idiot to try and reconcile with one...

People (if you really want to call them that) with Personality Disorders do NOT get better. EVER.. These people lack the ability to connect intimately with anyone. Every word they say to you is fake. They may look human, but they are really just a monster in humans clothing. They Are Predators.

If they tell you they love you – believe me, it is not a love that is good for you. It means you are of USE to them. 

Get the hell away from this distorted, hateful and soulless individual. The sooner you break away from them, the better your life will be. 

The truth is EVERYONE knows the truth about these people, but no one wants to call them out. This is because everyone knows that if they were to question the distorted persons story — they either know what a waste of time it would be to call out someone with NO conscience and NO remorse. Or they just don't want to deal with the drama that would follow by pointing out the truth to a ruthless, cold and vengeful asshole. 

Self centered sociopaths

All sociopaths are self centered - 

Self-centered sociopaths like to make other THINK care about them, and will often go to great lengths and put great effort to convince everyone (and you) that they care, but their behavior is actually very different from what they say they do and what that actually do.

Sociopaths are the most vindictive and hateful individuals there are. They will steal from a child. They will hurt the elderly. They do not care about the well being of humans or animals. They care about themselves, being in control and who the next sucker is they can con. 

If you are involved with a malicious sociopath. You will learn the hard way how they will attempt to damage you and destroy your life. They want to see you suffer - no matter how much you cared for them. Even if they are cheating and end the relationship. They make you pay for it. They have no remorse over anything they try to do to screw up your mental state. They want to break you down. They actually enjoy seeing someone tired and stressed out and afraid. 

After a sociopath you will find it hard to trust other peoples motives. But always remember that a few dirty polluted drops of rain into the ocean doesn't destroy the entire ocean. People are basically good. It's unfortunate if you meet a sociopath. Even more unfortunate if you have children with one. But you will make it through and become a stronger, better person. After the sociopath you - it may take time to heal. But you will heal. And you will appreciate life more than ever. Don't let a nasty sociopath steal your light. 

Sociopaths and narcissist

When you're not accustomed to dealing with distorted personalities like the narcissist and the sociopath, you will be totally caught off guard - especially when you are a genuinely good person. It's hard to realize that their are people among us with NO conscience and No Guilt or remorse.. 

Narcissist and sociopaths create fear in good people. You see these people committ other atrocities (and get away with it). Why wouldn't the atrocities they are doing to you be any different. 

Your fear of the narcissist and sociopath is valid. It is not just a misplaced feeling. Your fear is a warning and it is entirely justified. 

The best thing you can do for you and your loved ones is to get away from the distorted person -NO MATTER WHAT. If that means moving - DO IT. 

Sociopaths and Narcissist are extremely dangerous. 

Aggression and insecurity

The aggression of a sociopath is actually an overcompensation for lack of real love, the ability to feel genuinely happy and joyful. They lack understanding and knowledge. They are mimickers and frauds. They harass their ex's til they die. They don't get the hint that nothing they can say will ever make their ex listen to or respect them. They have burned that bridge. They usually move on to the next target unless children are shared. They use their sharp tongue to slice you in half. So in other words - they cut you down to make themselves bigger. Typical tactic of an insecure, hateful, and vengeful bully 

Sociopathic Parents = Abuse

When sociopaths become parents, it is scary. The sociopathic parent is irresponsible, manipulative, hateful, spiteful, and has no consideration the feelings of her/his children. 
Is that surprising?? That the sociopath is inconsiderate of the feelings of the children?  
It shouldn't be... The sociopath has NO consideration for ANYONE'S feelings. Children are no different. The sociopath views their children as just another "object" to use, to manipulate others. Especially the non-sociopathic parent. 

The sociopath will never care about the children. The sociopath doesn't think how much she is screwing with her children's head. The sociopath doesn't think about the future often, or consequences that could come from how she neglects them, manipulates them, alienates everyone healthy in their life. The sociopathic parent isn't concerned for their well being. The sociopath is only concerned about control. She will attempt to control the children's non-sociopathic by using the children against him. She has no remorse for her wrongdoing. 

She wants 100% control over the children. In order to control her ex-husband. Female sociopaths are more prone to using children to hurt their ex spouse than their male counterpart - but the male sociopath will also do this if he gets the chance. The male sociopaths us use the children to hurt and deprive their ex whole the female sociopath uses the children to control their ex. 

Men will take their ex wife and mother of his children to court in attempt to get full custody - for the sole purpose of hurting her. He doesn't really care to have custody of his children. He hates responsibility.  So it isn't because he LOVES his children so much... It's because he want to hurt his ex-wife.
What better way to continue to hold control over his ex wife?  The sociopathic father, tries to annihilate his ex-wife in court. He comes across as the victim of this "unstable and unreliable" woman. When his ex wife tries to defend herself, it is emotional and to the judge it looks like she is unstable. 

 THE WOMAN HAS BEEN TAKEN TO COURT BY HER DERANGED EX HUSBAND, AND SHE KNOWS WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF, AND SHE IS SCARED. SCARED FOR HER CHILDREN, LOSING HER CHILDREN TO A MONSTER. 

Unfortunately sociopaths come across cool as cucumbers in court. Child Services and Family Protection Agencies and judges need to be better informed about the manipulation of a sociopath, and the effects and fear the sociopath has on his victims.. It's important to be aware that the sociopath has the ability to make their ex look bat shit crazy. By smear campaigns, gas lighting, verbal abuse, neglect, emotional abuse, and terrorizing..