Sociopaths, narcissist, and psychopaths are dangerous parasites. If you ever want to be rid of these parasites – you must understand how they function. It is important that you see them for the evil they are. Understand that they are soulless and heartless beings who has no conscience, no empathy, and they are capable of destroying you and your children. Most importantly KNOW THAT THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE. YOU CANNOT HELP THEM, they DO NOT WANT HELP, THEY DO NOT THINK THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THEM. They see anyone who cares for them as a weak idiot who they can manipulate and take advantage of. They are ruthless and will destroy anyone they can to get their way or sometimes just for their own enjoyment.
The sociopath will intentionally cause you problem after problem. They want you to feel mental confusion, question your self, and in general destroy your confidence and self worth.
They refuse to leave you alone so you can move forward and live what's left of your life, that they sociopath hasn't stolen.
You have to be able to put your emotions aside, and “stop trying” to understand them. You will never understand them, as long as you have a conscience and you care for others. For an empath it's impossible to assimilate and comprehend how another human being can be so evil and cruel to a fellow human.
You must Always remember you are not dealing with a normal healthy human being. You are dealing with someone who has a defective soul. These people are spectacular actors, they put on an a show to others and pretend as if they are capable of empathy, love and concern. They are liars, cheaters, and cons. They do not know how to be honest and even make an honest living. They will always be involved in something that is scamming another person, causing harm (emotional or physical) to someone.
Sociopaths, Psychopaths and Narcissist lack EMPATHY.
They have No empathy for any kind of life. They are empty inside, and they will never experience life on a deeper level. The sociopath is so shallow and superficial, they really believe that their materials define them. They want to dress with name brand clothing, because that is the only way they can feel good about themselves.
Normal people feel fulfilled by their children, their family, and their interaction with other people. Not the sociopath. The sociopath must knock others down to feel successful. Destroying someone else makes them feel “on top”. Especially if they feel threatened by someone. They seek to destroy the person, and usually the person has no idea what the sociopath is doing until the damage has been done.
The best option when dealing with a sociopathic, narcissistic ex is to BLOCK THEM FROM YOUR LIFE! Never respond to them or give them a reason to talk to you. They will bait you and they are relentless predators. STAY STRONG
Absolutly absolutly absolutly spot on.
ReplyDeleteHow do you get rid of them?
ReplyDeleteHow do you get rid of them?
ReplyDeleteYou don't get rid of them... you RUN from them and never look back. Never see them and or speak to them ever again.
DeleteYou don't get rid of them... you RUN for your life. Never to contact them again.
DeleteIm a child of the living GOD and if Im not able, HE IS MORE THAN ABLE.FEAR NOT, ONLY BELIEVE.
ReplyDeletewhat if they are threatening you? saying they'll start a website and a facebook page to ruin you...use your social security to bankrupt you...veiled threats saying they know where your family live. I have been given 24 hours to respond. I DO NOT WANT TO RESPOND...I think its a genuine bluff but he will not cease...
ReplyDeletewhat if they are threatening you? saying they'll start a website and a facebook page to ruin you...use your social security to bankrupt you...veiled threats saying they know where your family live. I have been given 24 hours to respond. I DO NOT WANT TO RESPOND...I think its a genuine bluff but he will not cease...
ReplyDeleteI have been in your situation somewhat. The sociopath who had stalled me, started horrible dusgusting lies about me. Actually did set up a website, using blogspot. She used my real name as the title. So she was pretending to be, and not in a nice way. The website looked as it I was writing these things. When it was the sociopath! I believe the site first large sentence said "my road to recovery from borderline personality disorder and low self esteem"
DeleteShr wrote as if it was me, stating how I felt jealous of my step daughter and didn't like all the attention that she was getting from her father, because I want his attention, she doesn't derserve it.
I felt nothing of the sort. But she sure enough to pulled up the site to show her children, and say "look what your step*** is saying, look how she feels about y'all!
At that point I had enough. And filed a police report with local PD and the officer said it was in fact cyber stalking and harassment. I guess as soon as she got word I had filed this. The site disappears. But I had already printed it out, taken screen shots of it. Then the compliant I filed only fueled her rage more and started getting on social media using my first name, middle name, married name. So that any Google search of my name the first thing that popped up was how she was saying I was stalking her, alienating the kids from their dad. It was a very hard situation. I wanted us to be a family. I have child from previous marriage and my little girl wanted so badly to be close to her step siblings because she has never had any. But she is still not close to them because their mother made sure that her kids would never have a relationship with me or my child. Which is so evil. I understand she hated me. I married her ex husband (even tho she was already married again to another man - who she left my husband for. I was nothing but good to the kids and tried to help them.
My husbands ex is a dysfunctional person. Using drugs, scheming ways to swindled people out of money. Sucking the life out of my husband, her mother, sister, step dad, and new husband. When she saw me being kind and caring to them, I assume she thought it would make her look like a bad mom. I never wanted to do that. I wanted to help my husbands kids. It was obvious that they have been neglected and needed a lot of love and attention. And I wanted to give them attention and love that you deserve and small children. My daughter love them. She could not wait for them to come to our house. But as soon as the mother found this out that the children wanted to be with us she began to be a functional asshole. Her main. Goal in life became to make sure I was miserable and that her kids hated me. She even seemed to hate my daughter who was 5 at the time. She told her children things that made them not want to play or include my child. Which made me so sad. I had no idea how a mother / woman could be so cruel To a young child. She would make passive aggressive comments on Twitter and Facebook about how her children were perfect and well adjusted and my child was a trouble maker and problem.
Yeah my child had problems adjusting to moving away from family and new school. It didn't help that her step siblings went to same school but ignored her and acted like they didn't know her. It made my heart hurt. For my child and for my step kids. None of those young innocent babies should have to deal with such emotional manipulation. that was 7 years ago. Even now my step kids don't seem to want much to do with my child. My child going into 7th grade could really use support from her step siblings. She is smart tho, and knows that it just may never be...
WELL SHE IS A SOCIOPATH. it took me about 8 months to figure it out. Once I did I was able to read information about them. And find the appropriate way to deal with one.
NO CONTACT Has helped immensly! Maybe not for my child and step kids. But I had helped my husband and I live a happier life. With out all the constant drama and 100 text msg a day.
Just document everything. EVERYTHING! So You have proof of what he is threatening you with. If you feel it urgent. Go to attorney or police with the threats he is using against you
DeleteIt's true...they are evil. They will shame you (projection) of their looser self until someone takes side with them. I feel for you, and god bless you and the kids. B
DeleteSo very true netscout. Everything the tell you that you are - it is what they are. They are trying to convince another that it is NOT THEM, but it is you. And they are pretty convincing. Until one day you realize something just isn't right. It's when you make that realization. And you realize what they are, the hell really begins. Because now they fear you will expose them, so they must destroy the foundation of your being, in order for that not to happen. Evil....
DeleteThe only way to deal with a sociopath is to make them "disappear".Mad dogs must be destroyed!
ReplyDeleteUnknown, I enjoyed reading your comment. It made me laugh. I wish it was so easy to just **POOF** and make them disappear forever. And honestly i think I would prefer living and dealing with a Mad Dog (with the mange) than living or dealing with a sociopath ever again!
DeleteI found that exposing their lies in a very direct way (I used a hidden camera) in front of all the parties involved made her disappear forever. She will never, NEVER admit her lies. She tried to come back around a few times, but I just started drilling her on what the truth really was and she never stayed more than a few minutes. I'm pretty sure she is gone for good. I see her around town once in a while and try not to even make eye contact. I can tell for the first time ever she holds only contempt for me now, because I am of no more use to her. She knows her lies hold no weight w/ me now. Lies are their power. Lies and a very charismatic, and almost addicting personality. Just a thought though, this may be a dangerous approach to a man who could get violent much easier
ReplyDeleteI 100% agree with you
DeleteI been trying to get rid of my sociopath I blocked him so he started to email I then pit him on the spam list so he decided to come to my job yesterday it made me sick to my stomach to see him he didn't say anything to me just touched me on my shoulder and when I turned around I just looked at him he comes by my house and knock on my window at 3am.Has anyone else had someone act like this? if so how long did it last because I just want him to leave me alone
ReplyDeleteGet him out of your life. If he knocks on your window at 3 am. Call the police. Have him arrested! I use to put up with my sociopath driving by my house. Starting lies. When she came to the house. I called the police. I had enough. Yeah the police thing pissed her off and She started a website about me accusing me of stalking and harassing her. And how she was worried i would kidnap her kids from soccer practice. I was like wtf? Why the hell do I want to kidnap your kids. She would probably be happy if someone kid napped them. She doesnt ever seem to be around to take care of them. They are always with neighbors, aunts, and their friends houses. She sure doesn't want to take responsibility for them. But she loves claiming she is a wonderful mother and her children are her life. All those kids are to her is pawns to manipulate other people with... pathetic
ReplyDeleteYou are wrong about their soul. Every human being has a soul. And a soul is pure love energy. A sociopath is just disconnected from themselves at at soul level and only operate on a very egotistical human level. Not all sociopaths are evil but they are extremely selfish and uncaring.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe they have a soul. I think when they die, their spirit dies and they disappear forever. They are organic portals - if you know what that is. - google it
DeleteNope. No soul. They are soulless
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