True Sociopath & Narcissist Sociopath

All sociopaths are narcissist but NOT ALL narcissist are sociopaths. 

There are narcissist and then there are narcissistic sociopaths.... There is a difference between the two. From my own personal experience, this is what I have observed about the two.(this is only my personal observation and experience) 

A True Sociopath has no fear. The true sociopath does not care what others think of them. Unlike the narcissistic sociopath who cares not about what people think of them, but about how people view them. 

The Narc Sociopath wants to be viewed by others as popular and liked, even if they are not like by many people, they will pretend that they are. The Narc Sociopath is so insecure that it is important to them that others admire them, because of their materialist possessions, or name brand clothing. They want people to believe that they are powerful, and that they have a lot of “friends” with powerful connections. 

They are all different and they all do different things. 

A True Sociopath is so selfish and empty. That when they are deceiving and cheating, it never crosses their mind that the person they have lied to and deceived will be hurt by the deception. A True Sociopath does not see other people as having any rights of their own, or a mind of their own. The True Sociopath doesn't care or even think that people have the ability to make decisions for themselves. The True Sociopath is only capable of seeing what they want. The true sociopath only “thinks” of their wants. Their sense of entitlement makes them believe that what they want is the most important thing in the world. 

The true sociopath thinks only of him/herself. Sociopaths intentionally act as if they care about others and are eager to help. When it seems as if the sociopath is being “helpful” this is only because she/he has their own agenda. And if pretending to want to help or care will achieve this agenda for them, then that's what they will do. If the true sociopath wants something, he/she will make sure that they get what it is they want, and will use whatever means to get this. Whoever the person is that can get the sociopath closer to getting what  he/she wants will become the sociopaths next target...

The true sociopath will do anything and destroy anyone to get what they want - this includes —

• Compulsive pathological lying (outrageous ridiculous lies)
• Deception and manipulation (conning)
• Cheating and infidelity
• Living like a parasite
• Faking ‘love’
• Theft, stealing,taking out credit cards and loans in someone's name without that persons knowledge. 

When most people do something that hurts another person, we feel guilty, we feel bad about ourselves and can be hard on ourselves. We experience remorse and shame. Usually we end up feeling so bad that we will go out of our way to make that wrong, right.. 

The sociopath does not care at all if they have ruined someone's life. They lose no sleep and they barely even think about the wrong. True sociopaths experience no feelings of guilt, shame, or remorse. 

The narcissistic sociopath will never experience regret. The are only capable of hatred and revenge. 

If the narc sociopaths actions have damaged their life, they don’t feel bad for THEMSELVES, they feel hatred and will find something or someone to blame for whatever happened. 

They don't feel anything towards the any people they have destroyed. They actually feel a sick victory of some sort. 

Sociopaths and the Dark Triads

The book "Mask of Sanity" by Hervey M Cleckley, title says it all. Sociopaths and psychopaths wear a “mask of sanity”. With the mask on they look completely sane, and normal. But once the mask if removed, underneath there is a person who is psychotic, evil, deceptive, and basically criminally insane. 

Everywhere a sociopath goes, they leave a trail of destructive behind them. They are home wreckers, theives, liars, cheaters, and trolls. They are desperate people, always in search of their next "victim".  They cause harm in ever way to their victim. One way they hide behind their mask and wreak chaos and havoc in others, is by using modern technology. With the internet, they have a fake persona (one they can make up or impersonate) to deceive, lie and slander whoever they want. Their goal when slandering and spreading lies and rumors is to attempt to ruin the reputation of their victim. They want their target to "react". Once the target reacts, the sociopath plays victim. As if they have no clue why a person is saying these things about them online. So once a person reacts, they have played right into the sociopaths trap. 

Information found on www.slate.com -

Erin Buckels of the University of Manitoba and two colleagues, sought to directly investigate whether people who engage in trolling are characterized by personality traits that fall in the so-called Dark Tetrad: 

Machiavellianism willingness to manipulate and deceive others

Narcissism egotism and self-obsession

Psychopathy the lack of remorse and empathy and sadism – pleasure in the suffering of others.

It is hard to overplay the results: The study found correlations, sometimes quite significant, between these traits and trolling behavior. 

Erin Buckles found that simply asking survey participants what they “enjoyed doing most” when on online comment sites, offering five options: “debating issues that are important to you,” “chatting with others,” “making new friends,” “trolling others,” and “other.” The different responses about these Internet commenting preferences matched up with responses to questions designed to identify Dark Tetrad traits: and the results found a relationship between all Dark Tetrad traits (except for narcissism) and the overall time that an individual spent, per day, commenting on the Internet.

Here’s how different responses about these Internet commenting preferences matched up with responses to questions designed to identify Dark Tetrad traits:

Only 5.6 % of survey respondents actually specified that they enjoyed “trolling” By contrast, 41.3 % of Internet users were “non-commenters”, meaning they didn’t like engaging online at all. So trolls are, as has often been suspected, a minority of online commenters, and an even smaller minority of overall Internet users.

The researchers conducted multiple studies, using samples from Amazon’s Mechanical Turk but also of college students, to try to understand why the act of trolling seems to attract this type of personality. They even constructed their own survey instrument, which they dubbed the Global Assessment of Internet Trolling, or GAIT, containing the following items:

• I have sent people to shock websites for the lulz.

• I like to troll people in forums or the comments section of websites.

• I enjoy griefing other players in multiplayer games.

• The more beautiful and pure a thing is, the more satisfying it is to corrupt.

And again, doing so was correlated with sadism in its various forms, with psychopathy, and with Machiavellianism. Overall, the authors found that the relationship between sadism and trolling was the strongest, and that indeed, sadists appear to troll because they find it pleasurable. “Both trolls and sadists feel sadistic glee at the distress of others,” they wrote. Sadists just want to have fun, and the Internet is their playground! www.slate.com ___________________________________

Sociopaths have no conscience. They never feel guilt. They don't get sad when someone dies (they may pretend to be sad if the person who died may possibly leave them some kind of inheritance). A sociopaths brain is wired differently to the point where they cannot feel empathy.  Sociopaths are excelled liars. They manipulate, and fool people. The BTK serial killer's arrest shocked nearly everyone who knew him. With very few exceptions (some people saw he had a "dark side" and had the unfortunate oppurtunity to experience it). But for the most part, people saw a kind, charming man. His wife of 34 years had no idea that her husband was a psychopath. After his arrest she divorced him and his kids disowned him. He was arrested in 2005 and is serving life in prison.

Sociopaths cannot be rehabilitated. Sociopaths are born without a conscience, and from a very early age often do horrible things like abuse animals. Brain scans have shown that different regions of their brains light up when they see horrific images

Sociopaths have a psychotic personality, whose behavior is said to be antisocial, but the sociopaths I have dealt with are not anti social, but they blend in and look just like us. They want and need people to think they are "good" people. So they will lie and tell others that they donate to many charity's. Sociopathic mothers will exclaim how "her kids are everything to her, she loves them so much and can't live without them!" even though behind close doors she never pays attention to them, she never does anything that will be beneficial to the child that is healthy. Like maintaining boundaries, having rules they must follow, stucture (that all children need and actually want from a defective parent) The sociopath is screwed all up, so it's not even realistic for one to believe that the sociopathic parent would do what is "right" for her children. REMEMBER THE SOCIOPATH HAS NO MORALS, ETHICS, OR COMMON SENSE – nor do they care to have any.

It's very important to the sociopath to convince you that they can be trusted. They need you trust them because it makes it much easier for them to get what they want out of you, drain you mentally, physically and financially. After they have sucked you dry, they no longer need you anymore. So they discard you like garbage. But not before ripping your life to shreds and leaving you traumatized. The sociopath is gone before you even know what hit you..

Sociopaths do not see other human beings as thinking and feeling, they don’t see anything wrong with this behavior. They are very selfish and do whatever they can to get what they want, so whatever it takes – murder, cheating, lying – they do without any regret.

Sociopaths will never take responsiblity for anythjng.  They do not learn from experience. They Will NEVER change.           

Sociopaths like to feel in control. They like to control people they consider lesser and insignificant human beings. They mentally “torture” everyone they think is smarter or better than them. It gives them a sense of victory or achievement, to be able to break someone who is "talented" or "successful" down. 

Sociopaths and Envy

Envy- Sociopath/narcissist/psychopaths  all experience a level of envy toward their targets that is lethal. 

Whatever the sociopath sees in you that she/he knows they cannot be, want to be, or with something that she/he views that you have “won” in some way, envy can appear as rage in the smear campaign. The sociopath starts rumors and spreads lies to ruin your good reputation because they are jealous of your status and their reputation is usually pretty bad. 

Sometimes this envy is obvious and sometimes it is not obvious. But when it is, the sociopath in your life will leave you no doubt as to what that envy might be.

The sociopath will often accuse you of being jealous of them, stalking them. They do this because they are actually the jealous and they are probably staling you. 

Remember what the sociopath accuses you of IS USUALLY WHAT THEY ARE DOING TO YOU. 

Sociopathic women are usually more prone to smear campaigns than men. They are  less violent than men, but they are just as destructive if not more so than a sociopathic man. Becauee they seek to destroy you emotionally, mentally and socially 

The best way to handle a sociopathic woman. Is to never give her that reaction she craves. Limit contact or No contact. 

No contact if you have no connections like children with this woman. Limited if you have children. Only respond to her if it is absolutely necessary. She will make every situation an emergency when it is not. She will lie about kids in order to get her ex husband to respond. Learn to ignore her and realize that 99% of what she says is NOT TRUE 

Sociopaths and Entitlement

In a casual sense, the term "entitlement" refers to a notion or belief that one (or oneself) has a right to some particular reward or benefit – if given without deeper legal or principled cause, the term is often given with pejorative connotation (e.g. a "sense of entitlement").

Sociopaths believe they are entitled....

Entitled Sociopaths Do Not work or strive for what they have. They simply take it. They believed it is owed to them. Sociopaths are preposterous and delusional to believe they are somehow entitled to take everything they covet and desire. 

The sociopath will argue that she does deserve what she has and what she takes. The sociopath will argue that she earned everything. She will even argue that she has worked long and hard to get what she has. The “entitled” sociopath is often very convincing in her arguments. Entitled sociopaths are good at justifying their con games. Entitled sociopaths believe that the art of arguing, manipulating, conning, and lying to people is synonymous with working hard.

The sociopath is threatened by the creativity and ingenuity of others. The sociopath must be surrounded by people who they can easily manipulate. People who are in a lesser power than the sociopath. The sociopath wants those around her to think just as she thinks, by manipulating their thoughts, this makes her feel complete, and powerful. The sociopath is very aware of the difference between what is Right and Wrong. They are just hard wired in their brains to do the wrong thing. Even when doing right is more beneficial, the sociopath will still lie, and cheat and do what is wrong in order hurt others while in the process of getting what they want. 

Sociopaths are delusional predators. Sociopaths are notorious for brainwashing and convincing others of thinking how they think.  A sociopath chooses their victims carefully. They choose empathic people, who are easily manipulated by guilt, and kindness. The sociopath pretends to be compassionate and caring {in the beginning} They convince their victims to think that the non-delusional people, that the victim once admired and respected, are the delusional ones. The sociopaths goal is to convince you that she is completely sane and reasonable (the sociopath is everything but sane and reasonable) Victims become convinced that the sociopath’s entitlement is justified and all others are simply too jealous or too stupid to understand.