Most all Sociopaths, men and women come across charming, self-assured, the perfect catch. They put out a charisma that draws you in. In the beginning they say things to you that make you feel amazing, you pinch yourself with glee at your good fortune. You won't ever know what hit you until it's too late.
A female sociopath is one of the most evil beings on the earth. They can attend a PTA meeting then they will disappear for 2 days doing God knows what.. Drugs, random sex with strangers. The female sociopath sees nothing wrong with infidelity. She only sees wrong in getting caught and not looking like the picture perfect family she wants to imitate. Lying to her is as easy as breathing. Destroying the lives of women she is jealous of and jilted lovers is what she does best. She has no soul. She uses her children to get money and manipulate her ex's. She uses guilt? What may look like a good family is only a facade. What is really going on in the home is far from good. It's downright bad. Abuse, neglect, tantrums, lies, drugs, alcohol - the sociopath will pretend to be a great mom, she is convincing to those who do not know her. Only close family knows how bad she is. People close to her are sworn to secrecy because of intimidation . Those are the people she is using as Slaves to do the things she doesn't want to do. She has others picking up the children, keeping the children, but she wants everyone to believe she is actually doing those things. She takes credit for someone else's hardwork. She is a back stabber. Her family knows the pain and torment her wrath is capable of. They have lived with her to see it. They are scared of her. They cannot get away from her though, she will
find them, bully them, and intimidate them.
The female sociopath is rarely violent. Most WOULD prefer that she beat the shit out of them with a crow bar, than the emotional, mental, and verbal beating she inflicts upon them. She will focus on destroying you day and night. She will call people on the phone and make up random lies about you, she wants others to think you are a horrible person. She will play the victim and attack a persons character, ruin their reputation, make you look like the worst piece of shit in the world. She will even claim you beat her, broke her bones, or forced them to have sex (we all know you can't rape the willing) but these tactics work for them, by being the victim, people will feel sorry for them and this lessons her chance of being exposed for the monster she is. HER ONLY FEAR IS BEING EXPOSED FOR THE MONSTER SHE REALLY IS. PEOPLE FINDING OUT SHE HAS NO HEART AND SOUL-- HOW WILL SHE MANIPULATE AND GET WHAT SHE WANTS IF YOU BELIEVE SHE IS A BAD PERSON. She will fight to the death to keep her dark secret a secret. If you pose a threat of exposing her, watch your back. She is capable of murder, if she sees you as a threat to her.
NEVER THINK YOU CAN FIGHT A SOCIOPATH AND WIN. YOU CAN NOT. THEY WILL WIN. YOUR BEST OPTION IS TO CUT OFF ALL CONTACT. IF YOU CAN AFFORD TO MOVE AWAY THEN MOVE OUT OF THE STATE - GET AWAY FROM THIS WHORE AS SOON AS YOU CAN...
When you leave – if you can leave – you're faced with a monster, who looks like your average soccer mom, blends into a crowd, an imposter who has hidden the money, isolated you from family and friends, and driven a wedge between you and your children. Her explanations are rehearsed and twisted, painting you as the instigator, the abuser, the money-grubbing, shallow asshole. She is a
formidable verbal foe with her credible and plausible explanations of every interaction you've ever
had, and you find yourself on the losing end of every session with friends and well-meaning family members.