Tuesday, July 29, 2014
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
This doesn't mean that we should assume that every woman is a horrible person, who manipulates, violates, and exploits others. It is important though that we are Aware that just because someone is a mother – DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE LOVING AND GOOD PEOPLE.
Sunday, July 20, 2014
There are normal people who manipulate, but it isn't an evil type of manipulation. As human beings we do things we aren't always proud of. But normal human beings will usually feel bad about manipulating someone or lying to someone they care about.
This is Not the case with the Sociopath. They have NO shame or guilt. They don't feel bad or remorseful for the horrific pain they cause others. Sociopathic manipulators are pathological liars. They NEVER TELL THE TRUTH. They Do Not even know the truth anymore, because lying so much more familiar to them. Sociopaths withholding import at information from people. Sociopaths deny that they are ever responsible for causing pain or lying. They will Always find an excuse or justify what they did or they blatantly deny it.
Sociopaths are notorious for playing the victim. If they are confronted they may pretend to be confused, or they try to convince the person that is confronting them that his or her tactics are intended to help because they are very concerned. It's all a bunch of bullshit.
Sociopathic Manipulators frequently use gas-lighting. They love provoking someone, just to get an angry reaction out of them, then the sociopath will blame the victim and tell them and other that the 'victim' is acting crazy and is unstable because of their reaction. The sociopath will proclaim that they are the victim of this angry person. When in reality the sociopath has been pushing the persons buttons and provoking them to react.
As normals human beings, we can only take so much poking at us, harassing, slandering, provoking before we do react. After all WE ARE HUMAN...
The sociopath may look human on the outside, but inside they act nothing like a human being that God intended. They act more like a product made by Satan himelf. Sociopaths seem to be working for satan. Doing the devils dirty work. They are puppets for satan. They are skilled abusers. Sociopathic individuals exploit the trust they have gained through deception.
Sociopaths are very much like venomous snakes...
Plain and simple — Sociopaths are bad people. They will always be bad people. They will never change. Their brain is dysfunctional. They are deprived of the very thing that makes us human – COMPASSION.
Sociopaths — HAVE NO COMPASSION for anyone. They will destroy whoever it is they feel is a threat to their situation by slandering, mocking and ostracizing their victim. A sociopaths harassment is not violent, but it is covert and persistent
Friday, July 18, 2014
Thursday, July 17, 2014
• I have sent people to shock websites for the lulz.
• I like to troll people in forums or the comments section of websites.
• I enjoy griefing other players in multiplayer games.
• The more beautiful and pure a thing is, the more satisfying it is to corrupt.
And again, doing so was correlated with sadism in its various forms, with psychopathy, and with Machiavellianism. Overall, the authors found that the relationship between sadism and trolling was the strongest, and that indeed, sadists appear to troll because they find it pleasurable. “Both trolls and sadists feel sadistic glee at the distress of others,” they wrote. Sadists just want to have fun, and the Internet is their playground! www.slate.com ___________________________________
Sociopaths have no conscience. They never feel guilt. They don't get sad when someone dies (they may pretend to be sad if the person who died may possibly leave them some kind of inheritance). A sociopaths brain is wired differently to the point where they cannot feel empathy. Sociopaths are excelled liars. They manipulate, and fool people. The BTK serial killer's arrest shocked nearly everyone who knew him. With very few exceptions (some people saw he had a "dark side" and had the unfortunate oppurtunity to experience it). But for the most part, people saw a kind, charming man. His wife of 34 years had no idea that her husband was a psychopath. After his arrest she divorced him and his kids disowned him. He was arrested in 2005 and is serving life in prison.
Sociopaths cannot be rehabilitated. Sociopaths are born without a conscience, and from a very early age often do horrible things like abuse animals. Brain scans have shown that different regions of their brains light up when they see horrific images
Sociopaths have a psychotic personality, whose behavior is said to be antisocial, but the sociopaths I have dealt with are not anti social, but they blend in and look just like us. They want and need people to think they are "good" people. So they will lie and tell others that they donate to many charity's. Sociopathic mothers will exclaim how "her kids are everything to her, she loves them so much and can't live without them!" even though behind close doors she never pays attention to them, she never does anything that will be beneficial to the child that is healthy. Like maintaining boundaries, having rules they must follow, stucture (that all children need and actually want from a defective parent) The sociopath is screwed all up, so it's not even realistic for one to believe that the sociopathic parent would do what is "right" for her children. REMEMBER THE SOCIOPATH HAS NO MORALS, ETHICS, OR COMMON SENSE – nor do they care to have any.
It's very important to the sociopath to convince you that they can be trusted. They need you trust them because it makes it much easier for them to get what they want out of you, drain you mentally, physically and financially. After they have sucked you dry, they no longer need you anymore. So they discard you like garbage. But not before ripping your life to shreds and leaving you traumatized. The sociopath is gone before you even know what hit you..
Sociopaths do not see other human beings as thinking and feeling, they don’t see anything wrong with this behavior. They are very selfish and do whatever they can to get what they want, so whatever it takes – murder, cheating, lying – they do without any regret.
Sociopaths will never take responsiblity for anythjng. They do not learn from experience. They Will NEVER change.
Sociopaths like to feel in control. They like to control people they consider lesser and insignificant human beings. They mentally “torture” everyone they think is smarter or better than them. It gives them a sense of victory or achievement, to be able to break someone who is "talented" or "successful" down.
Friday, July 11, 2014
Monday, July 7, 2014
Saturday, July 5, 2014
Friday, July 4, 2014
It's very hard to deal with these types. The best way is to not deal with them. Be courteous if you were to see them, but limite any contact with them. If they are trying to contact you, they will use any strategy they can think of to get you to respond. If you have children with this person (God bless your soul) then you can expect them to make up lies about the children to try to guilt you to respond to them. *Remember most everything they tell you will BE A LIE, it's just a desperate attempt to get you to talk to them*. Why?
Because it's all about control. If you are limiting your contact with the borderline psychopath. They are not in control of you. They want to have that control of you. Either because at one time they had that control, and they feel you are a possession they rightfully own. They don't see you as a human being. But more as an object to be used to their expense. The best thing for you to do is ignore them and have little to No contact with them. This doesn't necessarily mean they will leave you alone, a good friend of mine still receives 10-20 text messages a day from his borderline psyhotic ex wife. And he hasn't responded in over 2 years. Yet her relentlessness and desperation continues. Everything from one of the kids have depression due to his lack of responding, to cancer. Yet he does not fight with her, he just refuses to be manipulated and controlled. From the kids point of view they would never see their parents fighting. The borderline psychopath has more than likely told the children that their father will not get along with her and she is trying so hard to get along with him - poor poor victim - she is always the victim. When the reality is, he is simply limiting his contact. The borderline psychopath will try every trick she can to get a response.
The borderline psychopath and the sociopathic female will spread all kinds of lies and nasty rumors (this is something she is notorious for) and she has usually been doing this since childhood. She is an accomplished liar and professional cheater, she is always looking for the easier road to travel (she is lazy). Her kind of personality does not know anything about honesty. They have perfected conniving and manipulation with a malicious intent.
Female sociopaths have an uncanny ability to find a character flaw in their target that can be exploited to destroy whoever they feel is a threat to their control and power.
Women are usually more co-operative and caring. But not the female sociopath (borderline psychopath). They do not feel any empathy towards their victims. They do not feel bad about bullying and destroying people. They are seeking dominance and control. Women are usually mothers, nurturers and caregivers. Not the female sociopath.
Many people do not realize how emotionally and mentally damaging this particular type of woman can be. She is cold hearted and ruthless, while pretending to be so compassionate. She will always tell her sad story. Like how her mother neglected her as a child, and her ex husband was an abusive alcoholic who took advantage of her kindness. If you think you might be dealing with one of these women, watch how she claims to be the victim of everyone else, but notice how aggressive she is going about it.
Real Victims are not aggressive and vengeful. Real victims are focused on how they heal from the abuse they suffered. They are not looking for pity or retribution. Real victims are looking for peace of mind and recovery. Real victims rarely talk about how they were abused, and rarely mention their abusers name.
While the borderline psychopath is looking to defame and destroy the reputation of their victim by vilifying them and accusing them of heinous and horrific behaviors. Usually the borderline psychopath will accuse their victim of acts that they themselves are guilty of. I.E. — stalking, cyber bullying, obsession, verbal abuse, impersonation, character assassination, etc....
Female Sociopaths are difficult to spot because most of them are incredibly good at hiding their true self and their motives. It is really difficult to believe the extent that the sociopath will go to, in order to destroy their target. The dirty tricks and unproven rumors that female sociopath/borderline psychopath regularly uses against their victims can be devastating.
The female sociopath is an out of control individual, she manipulates and punishes at will. Unfortunately the female sociopath is described as the vindictive or alienating abusive ex-wife. Who uses the children to manipulate and control her ex-husband. The children are passed around to relatives and friends like a rag doll, in order to keep them away from their father, only so the sociopath can say what a shit father he is. Until the sociopath gets what she wants she will use her children against their father, in another desperate attempt to gain control over him.
Unfortunately this does not end when the children are of legal age, the female sociopath will still try to use them against her ex-husband, even when they are adults. Most cases I have seen either end with the adult children seeing what their mother is doing and eventually they will refuse to have anymore contact with her. Or sadly, they fall into the trap the mother has set, and the father has no relationship with his adult children.
The children who take the side of their sociopathic mother can end up as crazy as she is. On a positive note, the father usually ends up ok, despite a few psychological wounds (that can be healed). He has dealt with this raging lunatic for decades. He has been insulted, manipulated, and verbally abused by her. It usually comes as no surprise to him that his ex has turned his children against him. The man has usually remarried a supportive, and caring woman (opposite of his psychopathic ex-wife). He is able to move forward and accept the situation that his vindictive ex-wife has created. He is able to accept the loss, because he is emotionally mature enough to realize that there is NOTHING he can do to change anything. The ex has lied and brainwashed the children for years. He is just too physically & emotionally exhausted. He has no fight left. So he chooses to invest the little energy he has left on his current family. He usually can see that fighting with a borderline psychopath (his ex) is useless. She is evil, and she wants him to pay (as if he hasn't paid enough, when she cheated and lied to him for years).
She is so delusional that after playing the victim for so long she actually believes she is the victim. Trait of a truly psychotic and dangerous woman.