The sociopathic grin - Smiling or Baring Teeth

This quote is talking about a sociopath.

And it is so true! 

Sociopaths smile so nicely to everyone, and look so friendly. Little do most know that they are actually planning on destroying someone.

The person they will always target is the caring, sympathic, loving and most genuine person. 

After all why  would a sociopath target someone like themselves? With someone with the same intentions that they have? When it's much easier for them to target a kind, trusting and giving individual. 

Sociopaths and narcissists have an unhealthy deep love for themselves and their own reflection in the mirror. 

Of course you will only see the hatred they have for you — after the honeymoon phase is over of course.

Sociopaths are Not Human

Sociopaths may look human like us. They have a body like us, they have faces like us, but they are not like us.  I believe being human means to have the higher intelligence than that of a primal animal. Being human means to have a conscious, and feel empathy for our fellow man. Love is part of being human. 

Since sociopaths lack a conscience and are incapable of demonstrating and feeling real empathy or remorse, it is hard to classify them in the same category as us.

Sociopaths are primitive, like wild animals  and act on primitive survival skills like wild animals. Sociopaths seem to be more of like reptilian snakes than humans. We know snakes and wolves kill to survive. Wild animals such as lions kill to provide to food for their young and their families. The sociopath destroys others, not for the anyone but themselves. They do it out of pure hatred and spite. 

So it's seems like the sociopath is less evolved than a wild animal on an emotional basis. 

One thing we know the sociopath does is try to be like us. They try to convince us that they are caring, empathetic, and loving. When they are anything but caring, empathetic and loving. 

In order to convince us that they are like us, they watch others. They even do research on emotions. A sociopath I know has a notebook, writing down certain emotions to feel if this or that was to happen. Creepy...

The sociopath needs to know how to appropriately act and what emotion to use, or we may see through them. So they have perfected their lying, and manipulation. These are these are their  survival skills. Every life they have destroyed, they learn a little more about empathetic humans, and how to get what they want from them. They go through life using one person after the next. Destroying one life after another. And they never feel an ounce of remorse for it. They literally never feel any guilt or remorse. They rarely say sorry, but if they do they are not sorry because of what they did. They are sorry that they got caught for it. 

So we know sociopath’s look human, but I do not want to be in the same human classification as a sociopath. They do not possess enough emotional human qualities to be called human beings. 

Humans possess a light within. A soul. I am not sure if a sociopath has a soul. I believe they possess more a an entity within. Meaning when they die they do not go to the afterlife, they simply turn to dust. Souls live on forever. They sociopath does not.

Sociopaths try to be like us because we are unique and absolutely fascinating to them, because we are so unlike them.

Sociopaths do show emotion, in order to manipulate us into believing they are capable of having emotion.  

When first meeting a sociopath we are unsuspecting (unless we have been targeted by one before) The reason we are so attracted to the sociopath is because they are mimicking us, they are pretending to be like us. So we feel we have a connection with them, because we have so much in common. They pretend to be someone who has the same interest we do.  

As humans that emcompass a heart and soul, we have a hard time hiding our emotions. That is a characteristic of being human that the sociopath must be able to mimic. And they do it quiet well. Their entire life is hiding who they really are from the world. They never experience a truly joyful life. They just keep lying and pretending and destroying until they finally die 

Serial Cheaters - Psychopaths, Sociopaths and Narcissist

Serial Cheaters usually all have some sort of screwed up personality disorder, such as the psychopath, sociopath, and the narcissist. They are just NOT wired right..

Their empathy synapses just don’t fire. They’re wired wrong. These are the kind of people that sleep really well after they come home from spending all day (or night) from being at a hotel with a married man (that's NOT their husband or wife) They can look at your distress, and see that you are upset or worried - and they simply shrug and look at you like you are crazy for the way you feel.

These are people who have double lives. Multiple affairs, spanning years, decades even. Consequences don’t really register with these folks. When you try to divorce a serial cheater - they’ll just remarry and do the same thing to the next sucker (hopefully their affair partner). They only really want to divorce you on their terms. So getting divorced from these sexually aggressive and dangerous people is never easy. (And God help you if you are unlucky enough to share kids with someone like this)...

These are the people for whom deceit is a lifestyle. Deceit is part of the high. Getting one over on someone. Do these types of people consider their partners feelings? Hell no. They are incapable of actually feeling Love for another human being. They don't even love themselves. That is why they seek pleasure anywhere they can find it. It is physical pleasure only. They will never be able to establish a real emotional and deep connection with anyone - ever...

They are the type who also will never admit that they cheated no matter what. Even after they are divorced and are married to the person they were having an affair with. Some can convince themselves that their actions were justified, others know exactly the wrong they were doing – they just don't care at all. 

I have actually heard a serial cheater say 'that they are now just married to their best friend'  {Example — I just married my best friend of 10 years, after divorcing the man I was married to twice...} 

WTF? Does that make any damn sense??

Of course it doesn't - but the psychopath really believes that all if they write about it on social network, twitter and Facebook, and enough people see it — then people will believe  it! That is so far from the TRUTH. Most people know who is the liar and who is the victim. As much as the sociopath tries to vilify a person - karma has the last word or the sociopath hangs themself with their own rope....

They are unable to see how crazy they sound. In their warped and twisted mind, they believe they have everyone fooled. Everyone is so stupid compared to them. But NO ONE is fooled.. 

Serial cheaters are deeply and profoundly screwed up. You would be an idiot to try and reconcile with one...

People (if you really want to call them that) with Personality Disorders do NOT get better. EVER.. These people lack the ability to connect intimately with anyone. Every word they say to you is fake. They may look human, but they are really just a monster in humans clothing. They Are Predators.

If they tell you they love you – believe me, it is not a love that is good for you. It means you are of USE to them. 

Get the hell away from this distorted, hateful and soulless individual. The sooner you break away from them, the better your life will be. 

The truth is EVERYONE knows the truth about these people, but no one wants to call them out. This is because everyone knows that if they were to question the distorted persons story — they either know what a waste of time it would be to call out someone with NO conscience and NO remorse. Or they just don't want to deal with the drama that would follow by pointing out the truth to a ruthless, cold and vengeful asshole. 

Aggression and insecurity

The aggression of a sociopath is actually an overcompensation for lack of real love, the ability to feel genuinely happy and joyful. They lack understanding and knowledge. They are mimickers and frauds. They harass their ex's til they die. They don't get the hint that nothing they can say will ever make their ex listen to or respect them. They have burned that bridge. They usually move on to the next target unless children are shared. They use their sharp tongue to slice you in half. So in other words - they cut you down to make themselves bigger. Typical tactic of an insecure, hateful, and vengeful bully 

Do Not Help the Sociopath

If you have ever been in a relationship with a sociopath, had a family member who is a sociopath. Then you already know the pain they are capable of inflicting on you, and your family and even your children. People who have been fortunate enough never to have been a target for the sociopath, will never understand what you have gone through or what you are going through. Although they will be sympathetic to your situation, (if they are a supportive and caring friend) but they will never understand what the sociopath has done to your mental health, self esteem, and over all well being. They probably will not understand why you cannot pull yourself out of the depression you are in. 

A sociopath can cause psychological damage and mental trauma, and even physical harm.  Having to deal with a sociopath is not just hard, it can feel like a fight for your life.  Because the sociopath is trying to emotionally destroy you. Even the strongest of people become broken down and weak after having to repair the damage the sociopath has done to them. The reason it is so hard to heal from being attacked by a sociopath, is because they are still trying to destroy you, while you are trying to heal. They are still out launching more smear campaigns, spreading more lies, and ruin you socially. They want others to question your morals and agenda. 

Although most people cannot beat a sociopath, that does not mean that you should just lay down and  die. Because that is EXACTLY  what they want you to do.  You do not have to be a low life as the sociopath is, and stoop to there classless low level, by seeking revenge. 

THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH A SOCIOPATH, IS TO NOT DEAL WITH THEM AT ALL! 
This means having Absolutely no contact with the sociopath AT ALL!  It means lcutting them out of your life. Don't respond to any text they send. Don't answer their calls. If they show up to your home, call the police ASAP. Because you are not dealing with a normal person. You are dealing with a monster. With no remorse, conscience, morals, ethics, and regard for human life, the sociopath is capable of the unthinkable. They are able to commit horrific acts and feel no guilt about it whatsoever. 

IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF A SOCIOPATH YOU MUST GET HIM/HER COMPLETELY OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD!  This seems radical, but it is the only option you have to keep yourself safe, and your family safe. You MUST Protect yourself from the drain that the sociopath has on your time, attention, money, and good attitude. 

Do Not Even Consider or Believe that you or anyone else can try to help and heal the sociopath. It is a pointless waste of your time and of your life. It’s not your responsibility. The sociopath can't be healed, and the sociopath doesn't want help. In fact if you try to help them, they despise you even more.  Because they hate all people but they loathe people who are good and compassionate. 

You have your own goals and your own life, and those are your responsibility. YOU OWE OTHING 
TO THE SOCIOPATH! The sociopath has a huge sense of entitlement. They believe that they should 
have whatever they want and desire, without having to work for it, like everyone else.. 

I recommend that you severely challenge your need to be polite in absolutely all situations. Sociopaths take huge advantage of this automatic courtesy in exploitive situations. Do not be afraid to be unsmiling and calmly to the point.