The Female Sociopath Feels Threatened by Other Women

A female sociopath blends in like everyone else. Although female predators are the hardest to detect. They fly under the radar. Female sociopaths know that they have an advantage just because they are in fact female. Most people do not realize that the female sociopath is as vicious as the male sociopath. The female sociopath is much more dangerous than their male counterpart. Simply because as society we view woman as gentle kind mothers, caregivers, and nurturers. Most female sociopaths use this to their advantage, by playing the victim.

They portray themselves as caring and sympathetic, educated and worldy, rich and generous, and do-gooders... 

This couldn't be further from the Truth!

The truth is - Not all women are loving, caring mothers and caretakers. Evil within them exists.
This doesn't mean that we should assume that every woman is a horrible person, who manipulates, violates, and exploits others. It is important though that we are Aware that just because someone is a mother – DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE LOVING AND GOOD PEOPLE.

A mentality of awareness helps us to be better prepared if we ever have to deal with someone who is devoid of a conscience and is seeking to gain our trust, in order to use us, exploit us and emotionally harm us. 

Sociopathic females convince others that they are wonderful, and caring mothers to their children. They try to convince  people that not only are they attentive mothers, but that they are also successful career women. They claim they can do it all! 

Oh how great they are and how supportive, loving and caring, and successful - always having their children's best interest at heart... (Yeah f*cking right) 

 

I have personally heard a female sociopath compare herself to a "mama bear" protecting her cubs. She made this statement when she was trying to ruin the reputation of her ex husband and his new wife. The female sociopath knows that children are innocent – this is why she so often brings the children into her conflicts and drama. She believes by exploiting the innocence of children will give her the upper hand.  By comparing herself to a “mama bear protecting her cubs” she is trying to portray herself as a mother that is genuinely concerned for her children – this could not be further from the truth. 

The sociopathic mother believes she is entitled just because she was able to bear a child. {for God's sake -Mosquitos reproduce - it is not that hard to become pregnant) 

Female sociopaths will use her children for her own selfish purposes and to torment and control her husband or ex husband. She obtains information from the children about their father, only to use any information against him later. When she is unable to find any wrong he is doing, she just makes up lies and will use tiny truths, and twist and distort them, so she looks like the hero and her ex husband looks like a shit dad who neglects his children.  

She will “brainwash” the children that their dad is “bad” and that he has chosen his “new family” and (new wife) over them... 

She makes sure that the children never make any emotionally connection with their dad. The children are unable to open up and bond with their father and a new step mother and any new step siblings they may have. The sociopathic mother brainwashes her children to believe that they are not as loved at their fathers home, as they are at her home. She does this in a pathetic attempt to control her ex husband and his relationship with his children. If and when the man decides to remarry, the sociopathic female will also attempt to control her ex-husbands new wife as well. 

The sociopathic female/mother is always in a competition with others (especially other women). Most of the time the other people are UNAWARE that they this competition is even going on.  

The female sociopath is so insecure of her own mothering, she feels threatened by the fact that her children will have a new step mother. She knows that even though she portrays herself to everyone as “mommy of the year” — she knows that she is often absent and uninvolved in her childrens lives. She neglects them, and sends them to stay with family and friends, she is too selfish and does not want to be bothered with having to take care of the children's basic needs and any demands.

The new woman who marries the female sociopaths ex husband, poses as a huge threat. The sociopathic woman has been controlling her ex husband before they were divorced and continues to control him - Even after they are divorced. 

The female sociopath knows that a new woman entering the picture could threaten the control she maintains over her ex husband. Which means all the extra money she manipulates her ex to give her - may stop.

So what does the female sociopath do about this? 

She goes on a rampage of false accusations, she will make up blatant lies about the new wife to her children's teachers at school  and people who her ex is friends with.  The sociopathic woman uses defamation and slander, and she will attempt to psychologically destroy and ruin the relationship between her ex and his new wife. {If the new woman is strong and secure - the sociopath will be unsuccessful, but the new woman will be put through hell first}

The female sociopath knows that a new wife will not tolerate her antics and will refuse to be controlled by a crazy ex wife. The new wife will put an end to any extra money given to the crazy ex wife. 

{The female sociopath has caused so much chaos and created drama so long that her ex husband is exhausted and will give her what she wants just for her to shut up and leave him alone for a few days} He is desperate to have his psychotic ex wife OUT OF HIS LIFE. Having children together makes that hard, but he will eventually find a way to make her non-existent in his life. Paying her off seems to buy him a few days of calm from her psychotic rage. 

Warning sign of the Psychopath - Sociopath

Warning Signs of a Psychopath

Hervey M. Cleckly was a psychiatrist and a pioneer in the field of psychopathy; the following are his 16 indicators of a psychopath:

• Considerable superficial charm and average or above average intelligence
• Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
• Absence of anxiety or other "neurotic" symptoms considerable poise, calmness, and verbal facility
• Unreliability, disregard for obligations no sense of responsibility, in matters of little and great import.
• Untruthfulness and insincerity
• Antisocial behavior which is inadequately motivated and poorly planned, seeming to stem from an inexplicable impulsiveness.
• Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior
• Poor judgment and failure to learn from experience
• Pathological egocentricity - total self-centeredness, incapacity for real love and attachment
• No deep or lasting emotions
• Lack of any true insight, complete inability to see themselves as others do
• Ingratitude for any special considerations, act of kindness, and trust
• Fantastic and objectionable behavior, after drinking and sometimes even when not drinking--vulgarity, rudeness, quick mood shifts, pranks
• No history of genuine suicide attempts
• An impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated sex life
• Failure to have a life plan and to live in any ordered way, unless it is one promoting self-defeat

Mental health professionals often use the Hare Psychopathy Checklist in order to asses psychopathy:

Factor 1: Personality "Aggressive narcissism"

• Glibness/superficial charm
• Grandiose sense of self-worth
• Pathological lying
• Cunning/manipulative (Manipulation is their trademark)
• Lack of remorse or guilt (They are often capable of violence)
• Shallow affect (genuine emotion is short-lived and egocentric)
• Callous/lack of empathy
• Failure to accept responsibility for own actions (Whatever the problem is, it is always someone else’s fault)

Factor 2: Case history "Socially deviant lifestyle"

• Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
• Parasitic lifestyle (They constantly take from others, and give nothing in return; money, love, time, etc.)
• Poor behavioral control
• Lack of realistic long-term goals
• Impulsivity
• Irresponsibility
• Juvenile delinquency
• Early behavior problems
• Revocation of conditional release

To put it in plain terms, these people do not have a conscious or feelings, they wreak havoc in the lives of everyone within their reach (their parents, children, friends, etc.), and they constantly burn bridges and screw up opportunities in 
their lives.

To make matters worse, they are often heavy drinkers, and drug users and they often have a criminal past and violent behavior, and they usually minimize or rationalize their shortcomings.

They often claim they do not care about what other people think about them because it is more important what a person thinks about oneself - this may be true, but this is NOT their real reason, in reality, psychopaths simply do not have the capacity to care about anyone else’s thoughts and feelings.

Sociopaths are what defines evil and soulless. They are capable of the most heinous acts. Never try to figure out what the sociopath is doing, because if you find out, they will KILL YOU, TO SILENCE YOU.