Sociopaths are Internet trolls

Sociopaths are Internet trolls. 

    This troll reminds me of my sociopath, with iPhone in hand!!

The Internet is the sociopaths favorite weapon of mass destruction against their targeted vicitm. Sociopaths troll the Internet because they enjoy making others feel bad. Even if they don't know the other person (persons) 

It is a way they can harass anonymously and terrorize others. All while hiding behind their computer screen. 

Sociopaths are sadist, and love to cause others distress. Normal personalities become upset or feel guilty if they have hurt someone. Not the sociopath. Once they realize that someone is upset, they take advantage of that, by provoking some more.

The narcissist

Narcissist are extremely abusive. Emotionally, mentally and even physically. 

It's hard to leave a narcissist – because after years of mental abuse. You become brainwashed by the narcissist. You feel you need the narcissist, you recognize the relationship is not healthy. But you believe that one day they will change. You hope that they will realize how much you love them and that they will change for you. 

Unfortunately the narcissist will never change. The narcissist does not want to change. The narcissist does not believe they are to blame for anything. It's always YOUR fault as far as the Narcissist is concerned.  

If you ever have tried to leave the narcissist. You know that they will pursue you. They all the suddenly become the person you want them to be, for a short period of time. They treat you with love and care. They tell you they are sorry for what they have done. You believe them, because you want to believe that they are capable of being a good person, a good boyfriend, a good husband. But unfortunately their kindness is short-lived...

As soon as they know they have you back, the old behaviors begin to rear their ugly head. You catch them in lies, they deny anything you ask them. You suspect them of cheating again, they adamantly deny it. They have done it before, so you know they can do it again.  And the narcissist will. 

You may think you need to narcissist, but in fact it is the narcissist that needs you. They need you to feed them their narcissistic supply. If you are not giving them the narcissistic supply that they need, they have no problem finding someone who will. 

Narcissist love to cheat on their partners with strippers, prostitutes, anyone who will make you question your own self. Many women ask themselves "why would he cheat on me with someone like that". Many women feel they are to blame for their partners infidelities. Maybe they feel they were not meeting their partners needs. This kind of thinking is exactly what the narcissist wants you to think. When you have been a good girlfriend, wife, or partner to the narcissist. The narcissist knows that he must keep you feeling inferior to him in order for you to do what he says. 

Some people leave their narcissistic partners, others do not. 

It can take years and years to recover from the mental abuse the narcissist inflicts. Your self-esteem is shattered, your confidence is gone, and you feel very alone. You  feel depressed and defeated because you  have wasted a majority of your life, that you will never get back on the narcissist. While you are in a pit of despair, the narcissist is doing what he does best. He is out with his fake friends, hooking up with women, and acting as if the breakup between the two of you has no effect on him. Honestly the breakup does not have an effect on him, because he lacks the ability to feel empathy for anyone but himself. He actually blames you for the demise of the relationship. 

Once the narcissist realizes that he cannot get you back, he stops pretending to care and the real monster comes out. You see who he really is, and you have seen this before. He is cold, mean, and has no sympathy, and no remorse. This person is the real person. Any kindness he had ever shown was just an act, it wasn't real. 

You must know you did not waste your life. You were manipulated by one of the best. Even if you only live one more day. It is a day well lived once the narcissist is out of your life. But once you realize that, you will live many well lived days. 

The Psychopath aka My ex wife and BiGGest mistake

Sociopathic and psychopathic women are some of the worlds greatest deceivers, liars, and con artist.

They seem innocent and confident. They are always charming and precise in everything. In the beginning they will use their charismatic persona to make a great impression on you. They will drop surprise gifts with a smile on their face, without any notable reason. They will talk to you about subjects that are important to you. At times, they will ask you why something is important to you. They are trying to find out things about you - to use it against you later. They are looking for your weaknesses and vulnerabilities. They will ask personal questions, asking as if they care so much - then use your answer later on in order to destroy you with it. 

Know that, even though they seem nice and friendly, Trustworthy and ethical, understand that they are FAR from it. If your skin crawls for no reason while talking to someone, it’s best to get away from them and avoid that person in the future. REMEMBER YOUR LIFE IS AT STAKE. Once involved with this "wolf in sheeps clothing" you are at risk for living a very unhappy life. If you happen to have children with this psychopath, you will spend the rest of your life being bullied, threatened, black mailed, guilt tripped and manipulated. 

The Psychopathic/Sociopathic Personality is extremely dangerous. Not only are they skilled in destroying you from the inside, out, they are also very adept at ruining other’s lives, while using the victim as their own pawn.  There are no limits to what the Psychopathic/Sociopathic personality is capable of. They will blind-side you, even when you feel you have done well to cut him/her off at the pass. When you have trained yourself to think like them, in order to protect yourself. You will never be fully aware of what this individual is doing, until it’s already happened.  Many tend to become more care-less with age. Meaning the older they get, they less cerebral they are, the more lies they have to remember, the more fried their brain is from their careless lifestyle, of drinking and a using drugs. 

Sociopaths will not usually keep there facade up after the age of 40. They begin to slip up, the mask begins to come off and they become exposed. Then once people figure them out - it's over for them. They are reduced to committing petty fraudulent acts, but are unable to manipulate others like they use to - because now everyone has been screwed over or lied to by the sociopath and no one wants anything to do with her. Yet she will still parade around like she is above everyone else. She will usually turn to the Internet to project her lies and manipulation. 

I still remember all the horrific things my ex wife did to me, and that she still is doing to me, and my wife, and my child and even to my step daughter, who is very young. All her extreme manipulation, guilt tripping, blaming, accusing, bullying my wife, and my step daughter. It was when she verbally attacked my step daughter, I realized I was not dealing with a normal person anymore, I was dealing with a monster, who had no conscious and didn't care who she hurt. She was evil. She is a bad human being.  I was and am 100% positive I am dealing with a Psychopath. 

She knows I am no longer the person she "thought" she could manipulate and put down. Even after our divorce, I still did as she told me to. It was my wife who made me realize there was something "NOT NORMAL" about the situation. That ex wives are ex wives for a reason. I did not owe her anything. All I was responsible for was making sure my child was taken care of. She expected me to come to her home in Christmas morning and put together toys for our child, in the house she shared with her new husband (one of the many men she was having an affair with during our marriage) I had a new family and once I remarried my obligation is to my wife. I see my child and he opens the gifts we get him at our house on Christmas. I will NEVER SPEND ANOTHER HOLIDAY WITH MY EX AGAIN. Recently her mother threatened me in a text message, threatening my life. Then proceeded to call my work and change up very important meetings. That's when I knew I had to take drastic measures. Even if it that means taking legal action against her, filing a protection order, it's obvious she doesn't plan on respecting my boundaries or me. She is an evil, conscienceless, lying, and conning Psychopath. 

She has made accusations on my wife. Everything from posting all over the Internet that my wife is obsessed with her. Jealous of her. Insecure. And when my wife had enough she defended herself, which made the psychopath even more fueled to post slander and defamation about my wife.  She was vilifying the real victim. Everything she accused my wife of - was exactly the things she was doing to my wife. It is obvious to me, my wife and the rest of the world who is really insecure and jealous. The psychopath! My wife Has everything the psychopath wishes she possessed. Which is beauty, youth, intelligence, persistence, and what the psychopath really hates about my wife is her kindness, and how liked she is by everyone. The psychopaths actions are so predictable that my wife is afraid for her safety and her daughters. Now the psychopath can finally see that she is unable to manipulate me anymore. I never respond to her. What is the point? Everything she says is a lie, 100% a lie. For. Telling me that my child had cancer, to depression. I communicate with my child, not the mother because she is so insane. 

I have to re-emphasize the fact that I am NOT a Psychological professional of any sort. Everything I post about is from my personal experience with a sociopathic woman, and the information I have found out about my sociopath and sociopaths/psychopaths in general .  I am still learning. I feel it is important to share what i have been through and what I’m learning with others, so hopefully they will not ever have to go what I have been through and am still going through. If I am incorrect in my thinking. I always welcome comments from others, so I can Learn more and here their story as well... 

My Ex Wife - Satan's Best Creation Yet...

Being the victim of a vindictive, evil and malicious female sociopath, I am aware of exactly how they operate. Considering I married this evil whore twice, and had a child with her. It wasn't until she was having an affair with a man 30 years older than her for 5 years, when I realized how evil this blonde bitch was. She would project and blame me for what she, herself would do; i.e., accuse me of being negative. When she is the most negative person I have ever met in all my 47 years of living on this
earth.  She would gaslight me into believing that when i had a normal reaction to something she 
would do, like being angry and hurt because of her lying and stealing from me, breaking promises to our child to be with her lover, or cheating, she would act as if my reaction was the problem and there 
Was something wrong with me. Thats when I would call her out on her inappropriate and unacceptable behavior. By confronting this soulless monster, I was accused by her of being the 
abnormal. I was the one who is too sensitive, and not acting like a man for being hurt. I was one with the problem. I was the bad guy, I was critical, or always focusing on the negative. 

This is part of the head-fuckery that she put me through. Acting inappropriately, unacceptable, and 
downright abusive, and then trying to turn it around to make it my fault. It's adding insult to injury at that point. Not only did my ex wife intentionally cause pain that I never deserved, all while denying 
that she ever did anything at all. She would try to make it my fault,  she wanted me to blame myself for something that supposedly didn't happen. Yes, re-read that. That is how illogical it is. She wanted to make sure that people thought I was the reason that the relationship failed. When the truth is the there never was a relationship. I wasn't in a relationship with a loving caring human being. I had been manipulated and led to believe I was in a relationship. But now I realize everything about her was fake, unauthentic and a lies. I was conned like many others before me. I can't really say I ever had a relationship with  my monster of an ex wife. There was never a relationship to begin with. I never had a chance. I never saw what happened until it was too late. And now an innocent child was involved.  

I knew it would only get worse from there. And I was right. It's been 8 years since separation and 5 since we were divorced and I still am harassed by her everyday. She uses our child to get things. It worked for a little while but I stopped feeling guilty. I knew what kind of man I was. I loved my daughter and would do anything for her. So I stopped listening to my whorish ex wife's bullshit, calling me a dead beat because I wouldn't give her $250 for gift card she supposedly bought my child's school teacher for Christmas gift.  I am a dead beat for her crap decisions. Knowing she didn't give any gift card. Just another scheme to get more money from me. As of the $3500 monthly in
support is not enough..

I was trapped by this evil monster of a female for so long. I didn't know how to stand up for myself. I didn't know how to get her to leave me alone.  I use to just give her the money. So she would leave me alone.  That was until I met my amazing wife now. We have been together for 5 years. She has stayed with me, even tho my ex wife has targeted her, ruined her reputation. She has stuck it out with me.. She taught me to stand up for myself. My ex wife is unemployed and a loser, and my new wife is the woman who made me see that I was not a piece of shit, my ex claimed I was. That I had more power than I knew. I had just been so broken down my evil bitch ex wife that I lost all confidence. I had been so attacked by her, that I was afraid.
I was afraid of what she may do to my child. Or what she would tell my child lies to make her hate her dad.
But now I am finally free of this psychopath. I give all the credit to my wife now. She stood up to the monster, and that is something no one would do.  It takes a strong person to stand up to any sociopath. But if the person has a healthy mind, and is strong and confident, the sociopath may destroy their reputation but never can hurt their self worth. My exwife would like to believe she is in control. She knows she has lost all control of me. I dont respond to her text.  I ignore her.  My new wife tries to keep peace for my daughters sake, but the ex is so evil there will never be peace.  I had so many years taken away from my life because of my ex wife,

So now I live everyday to the fullest. I know my ex is miserable and she makes her family miserable. And she wants me to be miserable. And wants my wife out of the picture. But that's never going to happen. I feel we beat the sociopath. We did the impossible. By working together, and being a team, and backing each other up. My wife now and me couldn't be happier - well we might be happier if my ex vanished ....