Sociopaths and Psychopaths are all Narcissists

SOCIOPATHS and PSYCHOPATHS lack empathy and regard other people as mere instruments of gratification and utility or as objects to be manipulated. Psychopaths and narcissists have no problem to grasp ideas and to formulate choices, needs, preferences, courses of action, and priorities. But they are shocked when other people retaliate against them, or do the same thing as they do.

Most people accept that others have rights and obligations. The sociopath rejects this advantage. As far as he/she is concerned, only she is right. People have no rights and she/he the sociopath, has no obligations that derive from the "social contract". The sociopath  holds herself to be above the law.
The sociopath wants everything and wants it now. Her whims, urges, catering to her needs, and the satisfaction of she drives take precedence over the needs, preferences, and emotions of even her
nearest and dearest.

Consequently, sociopaths feel no remorse when they hurt or defraud others. They don't possess even the most rudimentary conscience. They rationalize their (often criminal) behavior and intellectualize it. Sociopaths fall prey to their own primitive defense mechanisms (such as narcissism, splitting, and projection). The sociopath firmly believes that the world is a hostile, merciless place, prone to the survival of the fittest and that people are either "all good" or "all evil". The sociopath projects her own vulnerabilities, weaknesses, and shortcomings unto others and forces them to behave the way she expects them to (this defense mechanism is known as "projective identification"). All SOCIOPATHS are abusively exploitative and incapable of true love or intimacy.

Sociopathic Personality Disorder  is a life-long pattern of traits and behaviors which signify infatuation and obsession with "winning at all cost" no matter the feelings of others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance, and ambition. A sociopath possesses pathological narcissism which is maladaptive, rigid, persisting, and causes significant distress and functional impairment. Sociopaths are always in conflict with someone, especially authority figures.  Sociopaths possess a limited time horizon and rarely (almost NEVER) make long term plans. They are impulsive, reckless, unreliable, aggressive, violent, irritable, and, sometimes, believe the possess magical power. Believing themselves to be immune to the consequences of their own actions..

Sociopaths often end up in jail, having repeatedly disregard of social norms and laws. Partly to avoid this fate, the sociopath will evade the law and target unsuspecting victims for money, material items and whatever else they "think" they are entitled to, through manipulation.
SOCIOPATHS HABITUALLY LIE! They STEAL OTHERS' IDENTITIES, DECEIVE, USE ALIASES and CON for "Personal profit or Pleasure."
Psychopaths AND Sociopaths are the most hateful and vindictive of all people. They hold grudges. They never REGRET what they do to others, or forget what they do, or what others do to them (usually in retaliation or revenge against the sociopath) 
They are driven, and dangerous.

All SOCIOPATHS are NARCISSIST  but NOT ALL NARCISSIST are SOCIOPATHS..

Sociopaths are Stalkers..

Cowardice - This is one of the major traits of a stalker/sociopath, rather if the obsessed stalker is on the street or online.  People with a stable mind, and who are emotionally and mentally healthy  have no need or desire to engage in stalker like behavior. 
When someone is truly being stalked or harassed, they will call the police, and take the legal measures necessary to protect themselves from a dangerous stalker. 

Many stalkers/sociopaths will vilify their victims. This is a common tactic they use. For example: to know if someone is being truthful about being stalked, they WILL NOT TAKE TO SOCIAL MEDIA TO DISCUSS IT. A person being stalked is usually frightened and afraid. They will try to hide from their stalker, they will not take to social media to announce that they have a stalker. 

*RED FLAG* - When you see a person claiming that "they are being stalked by a cyber troll, or mentally unstable person" - **THIS IS A RED FLAG**  
When a person is TRULY AFRAID they will NOT do anything to provoke the stalker. For example - they will NOT claim they have a Stalker, or use first and last names. When you see someone using a persons first and last name - it is usually in an effort to defame the person, accusing them of the exact behaviors they are inflicting on the REAL VICTIM. 

Facebook or twitter are a stalkers favorite way to keep up with their victim. And also it is a sociopaths favorite tool to slander and ruin the reputation of their victim - if someone's social media uses a persons full name negatively - THE SOCIOPATH WANTS TO VILIFY THE VICTIM SO THAT THEY LOSE SUPPORT OR CREDITABLY. Also female sociopaths Use their children to play victim. They know children are innocent, and they prey on people's kindness by saying "my kids are so scared of Firstname Lastname". They will exploit and use their kids to elicit pity from kind people. 

Real Victims DO NOT want to instigate or provoke the stalkers behavior. A PERSON BEING STALKED is afraid and should call the police and file a police report, to let the police be on alert about the situation. Speaking of the stalker 
on social media could put their families life and their own life in danger. 
Having a stalker can be a truly horrific ordeal. A person being stalker will keep a low profile and disappear from social media because they do not want their 
stalker to know what they are doing or where they are at.

**Also if a person has a blog and they are slandering and accusing someone of stalking or other unlawful acts on their blog - if you see that they have put the person full name in the "labels" section, so that if that persons googled - the negative info the sociopath has provided will be the first thing to come up**

SO ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE POSTING COMMENTS AND USING A PERSONS FIRST AND LAST NAME. THIS PERSON IS 99% MORE THAN LIKELY NOT BEING STALKED, BUT THEY ARE ACTUALLY THE PERPETRATOR AND THE STALKER. ** What they are doing is vilifying their victim, in order to convince others that they are the victim, so they can continue to stalk, harass, and mentally torment the real victim. This is a very common tactic of any sociopath. They are attempting to discredit the person they are stalking and harassing. BY DISCREDITING THE REAL VICTIM, IT GIVES THE STALKER SOCIOPATH MORE ACCESS TO CAUSE HARM TO THE VICTIM. They will accuse others or committing criminal acts but rarely take legal action. Because they know that if an investigation was to take place - THEY WILL BE EXPOSED AS THE ACTUAL PERPETRATOR. It is much easier to play victim and get pity from kind people.

The Internet is the perfect domain for the Stalker/Sociopath. The sociopath seeks to avoid all personal responsibility for her/his behavior.  Not only do “normal” people have no need to engage in stalking behavior but the intelligent, self-confident, well balanced person (one who can feel love, empathy, joy and compassion) wouldn’t even consider stalking another person.

The very thought of it would be abhorrent to them. ------------------------------------>>>For a sociopath however, stalking is like second nature to them; a 
skin they feel very comfortable in.

The ultimate coward stalker is the man or woman who stalks a former lover or spouse. And the worst of the worst cowardly stalkers actually stalk their former spouses/lovers NEW SPOUSE OR LOVE INTEREST. THIS IS TRUE PSYCHOPATHIC OBSESSION! The psychopath is not satisfied with stalking only their former spouse, they stalk their former spouses new lover or partner, because they want to know what their former spouse is doing, and know everything about the person they are doing it with. This is the most DANGEROUS of all situations, when the obsession has gone to these extremes.  Unfortunately this can result in a homicide. The stalker/sociopath murders their former lover/spouse and also the former spouses new partner. Since the sociopath is such a coward, they will usually takes his or her own life to avoid prison, and all responsibility.  They take their own life NOT because they feel ANY REMORSE or GUIL for the person they slaughtered, or the lives they have destroyed. They do it to avoid 
being held legally responsible for their actions. When you think stalker, also think coward. They are one and the same. This also means that cowards, in the right circumstances and possessing the right frame of (twisted) mind can be extremely dangerous, even those who have never before committed of a serious crime of violence. (That only means they haven't been caught yet for their disgusting and perverse behaviors) 

*¡!¡* I am going to post more on this subject later. I have a good friend who has been accused of stalking by her husbands, ex wife. This woman(the ex wife) has taken slander and false accusations to a new extreme of creepy and dangerous. She is accusing my friend who I have known for about 20 years, of stalking her. She claims to be scared for her life and her children's life (red flag) If this deranged and mentally unstable woman is so afraid for herself and her children - why does she make post on Facebook about her children's life and activities. If she is being stalked she would not be giving out so much personal information of where abouts. Also she has no problem with my friend picking her children up from school. What this psycho ex wife is doing is attempting to ruin my friends reputation, because she is jealous of the fact that she married her ex husband, although the ex wife is remarried as well... She has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (so her mother and other family members have reported) but it is a clear case of sociopathic disorder. Sociopaths are rarely diagnosed because they can fool the most qualified psychiatrist. So it is a hard diagnosis to make ..

Control and Exposure - Evil Females

   
                  

   Sociopaths FEAR 2 things -
     They fear losing control...
           They fear being exposed....  

When a sociopath is not in control they literally lose it - lose their minds that is.
They want to be in control of everyone and everything at all times. When they feel that 

they are losing control of someone or something they will go to desperate measures to get that control back. Sociopaths feel a sense of entitlement to everything. That includes people. Even when you divorce a sociopath or they divorce you they still feel that they have the 
right to control you. This is especially true if you have children with one. 

If you have children with a sociopath your life will be forever chaotic, The sociopath feels they own you and they had the right to control you, and they will use your children to do 
that. None of your child-support money will ever go to the children. The sociopath will 
always ask for more money but no matter how much money you give them - it is never enough. They always want more. You cannot buy a kind word from the sociopath. You cannot give them enough money to leave you alone. Giving them money made by you a 
small  amount of peace - But that peace will not last long... Before they are asking you for 
more money.. This applies more so to the female sociopath then to the male.

Female sociopaths are different than the male sociopath. Female sociopaths are rarely detected and they blend in very well. The reason that they are rarely seen a sociopath is because of the way society views women. Most of us believe women to be kind, nurturing caregivers. It would rarely cross our minds to believe that women are capable of such horrible acts.  

 Most females sociopaths are not violent. They do not commit acts of physical abuse. (that is in my personal experience and what I have seen - but I'm sure there are some out there, that are very capable of violence. The female sociopath will destroy you from the inside. She will stop at nothing to tear you to shreds, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. She will start by destroying your character. Making sure your reputation is so damaged. That no one will believe a word you say. She will
 try to turn your family and friends against you. She will try to turn your children against you.  

She will play the role of the victim. She will tell everyone you know, she knows, including  acquaintances, and even strangers - about how terrible you treated her when you were together.   When the truth is she was the real abuser the entire marriage. She is verbally abusive, not only to you but to her family members.  She is a serial cheater. No matter how good you are to her she will to cheat with many men, just for the thrill of it. 

Sociopaths tend to get bored easily. They do not want to work for anything they have. They want the nicer things in life,  but they are not willing to work for them. But that does not mean that they are not determined to get those things. When a sociopath wants something they will go to the extremes to get what they want. It does not matter who gets hurt, or who they have to teardown, run over or destroy -- the sociopath will stop at nothing to get what they want. They don't mind using their own children to manipulate people to get what they want. 

If you are unfortunate enough to have children with a sociopath. Then you will be their main source of supply to getting what they want. Sociopaths love to 

make others feel guilty. They will try to make you feel guilty by using your own children against you. For example they will say "little Jimmy doesn't feel like he has nice shoes like the other kids at school." "I don't want him to feel like he doesn't fit in, do you mind giving me an extra $100 bucks, so I can get him a new pair of nikes, and maybe some socks?" Many people fall for this guilt tripping at first. And that is okay because that only verifies that you are human (unlike the sociopath) and you have compassion and a good heart. 
But you will learn soon enough that little Jimmy never comes home with a new pair of shoes. And when you ask him "did your mother get you new shoes?" He will say no. And when you look at his feet you will notice that there is nothing wrong with the shoes he has (that you bought for him a month ago). You will probably find out that little Jimmy never said anything to his mother about wanting new shoes to fit in. 
Yep... Every single word of what the sociopath told you about your child needing new shoes was a lie.. And you will quickly find out that everything the 
sociopath tells you is a lie. 

This is when you start to question about what the sociopath told you when you were together. Was every single bit of it a lie? Yes...sadly it was. After the divorce from the sociopath, you begin to look back and try to remember. That's when you come to the realization that the entire relationship was all a lie. That the relationship itself was never real.. It is hard to accept this fact. It is hard to accept that you were in a relationship for so long and you wasted so much of your time when the entire thing was all fake. You realize that you never meant anything to the Sociopath. That there was never a relationship. Nothing you had together was real. This person never loved you. 

It is a very hard fact to swallow. Unfortunately it is true; the sociopath is unable to love. The sociopath lacks that emotion. They do not feel love empathy, compassion for anyone. The next person they are in a relationship with will be the same. It will not be a loving and caring relationship. It will be a "what can you do for me, what can you give me" relationship.  The sociopath is a taker they are not to givers. They will take take take and never give anything back. I don't know if that is just in their nature or because they lack any good emotion that it is all they know how to do. 

But they will take so much they literally drain the life out of you. They resemble leeches in a way. They latch onto you. And they suck your blood. They suck the life right out of your body. You have no more energy. Your spirit is broken. But does the sociopath care? Does it hurt them to see you in such bad condition. Hell no they do not care. They put you in that condition. They are proud of what they have done. They feel more powerful than ever. That they were able to break you. 

Cyberpaths - sociopaths - INSANITY

“Cyberpath” is a colloquial online term that describes an individual with a pathological disorder who uses the internet as a medium for acting out their pathology. The alternative definition is a psychopath who uses the internet to find, stalk and exploit others either online or in real life.

Cyberpaths use the Internet to defame, slander and stalk their victim/target. Being a target of a cyberpath/sociopath/narcissist myself. I know the torment that one of these sick individuals is capable of. ONCE YOU EXPOSE THEM YOU WILL MOST CERTAINLY BE SUBJECT TO THEIR SOCIOPATHIC RAGE. THE CYBERPATH MAY/WILL DO THE FOLLOWING:

- harrass you by phone or email (BLOCK their emails and instant messages or DO NOT REPLY - just save them. If they threaten you, impersonate you, go immediately to the 

authorities.)

- do everything they can to make YOU look like the "crazy one". The want others to believe it's you that has the problem. You are the sick, mentally ill, distrubed ("scorned) or not credible person
- use their 'minions' (friends/ spouses in denial, other predators, etc) to help them discredit and smear you

- they make up many fake profiles to comments anonymously about how they know you and you are the crazy one. And that it is you that is stalking the sociopath. They will act as if you have caused the sociopath so much pain. YOU ARE PAINTED AS THE BAD GUY.

- they will smear you, they will go for you at full speed ahead. Slandering your name in every way. All lies. (My sociopath said that I was a horrible father and willing to sign my rights away on my child - just so I could continue to live in the house I bought) - she also said I had stolen money from her then lost it all gambling. 

* I have been accused of physically beating her, breaking bones, abusing our child, being a pathological liar, an alcoholic, a drug user, dead beat dad. -( I am worried of the lies she will tell next about me). I worry as soon as I do not do what she wants - like give more money, get her a car (she has wrecked 5 cars in the past 4 years) that she will accuse me of more horrendous things. This has bedn so frustrating. I can't defend myself. The more I try the crazier her 

accusations become. 

The female sociopath possesses TWO symptoms always. They are verbally abusive, and they are serial cheaters. These are only 2 common traits of the female sociopath. When a sociopath has chosen you as their target, she will stop at nothing to destroy you. Your reputation. Your spirit. She wants to break you down, and will enjoy watching you fall into a million pieces.  
She will socially destroy you, by spreading vicious lies that are vile and disgusting.
My ex wife is a coward sociopath, she does all her creepy stalking online and spreads her gossip there. She has over 30+ blogs,  some in her name and most are blogs created by her impersonating someone who is not Real. I always know what she is doing to me and others just by reading her blogs. In her blogs she portrays herself as poor pitiful victim. She always uses her children as her weapon of mass destruction. In order to manipulate people to feel sorry for her and then give her what she wants. 

About four years ago, she made some very defamatory statements about me. These statements could have cost me my job. She was accusing me of everything from stealing money from her, being an alcoholic, a compulsive gambler, and even being physically abusive to her and breaking her bones. 
She had also stated that I was willing to sign my rights away on my child, in order to stay in the home I currently reside. Which is untrue. The home I am living in with my new wife. I purchased this home with the sociopath, and at the time she was having affairs with other men, and she wanted me to live out here because it is 30 minutes away from town. That way she could be in town having her affairs with numerous men. She never made one payment on the home, she has never invested a dime in the home. She had no interest in the house or our child.  She would claim to be working and sometimes I didn't see or hear from her for 3-5 days at a time.  She was always gone. She stayed at our old home, in town, even tho it was for sale. My old neighbor told me he saw many different men coming in an out of house. 

I was working my ass off and taking care of a young child, although she always claimed to have a job and work. She never had a job or worked. She only claimed she worked because she didn't want to take care of our child, but she would claim to be a working mother, and a successful business woman. She chose men, some who were strangers, some she knew “well” over her daughter.  I knew it was going on but at that point I didn't care. I HAD TO WORK FULL TIME TO SUPPORT MYSELF, MY WAYWARD WIFE, AND MY CHILD. And I had to take care of my child with no help.  I didn't have time to confront a person who was only going to look me dead in the eye  and LIE. Lying is second nature to her. I hate using this word, but this bitch was an evil, selfish, cunt..

Sociopathic  stalkers believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing and entitled to every wish. Such people have no sense of personal boundaries and no concern for their impact on others. To a sociopath she is always “the smartest person in the room,” and can outwit anyone. She knows how to change her IP address.  So it's hard to trace whatever blog, domain suet she has made up about me back to her. She doesn't work. But she claims to be a working attorney. She was an attorney 10 years ago, before she was disbarred. She had stolen in a matter of 2 years over $250,000 from her clients. In order to avoid going to jail, she pleaded with the state bar that she was bi-polar. And she also put all the blame on her secretary. 

I really regret marrying this person. She lied to me our entire marriage. What is so crazy is that I actually believed her lies. No matter how many times she would lie to me - even if it was the same lie, I would believe it.. She was so convincing. Sometimes I think I did not want to believe the truth. I did live a lot of my life in denial of it. Now I'm fully aware of what I'm dealing with. A monster. A person that has no conscience, no heart, feels sorry for no one and is just downright mean. 

DONT SEEK REVENGE - Sociopaths will destroy themselves sooner or later

Sociopaths are notorious for lying. To a sociopath, lying comes about as natural to them as breathing... They are not capable for telling the truth. They only know how to lie. They are aware of their lying though. They are aware when they are telling people you know lies about you in an attempt to ruin your reputation. They are seeking to destroy you. Why? Because they want to kill you emotionally. This is how they break you down. They are convincing. They are psychopaths. No conscience or remorse about anything. They are aware they are ruining your life, hurting your children, and they just do not give a crap. They want you to feel their wrath. They want to see you suffer. To a sociopath, the more they can destroy a strong person, the more proud they feel of what they see in their "warped" mind, as an accomplishment. 

If you confront them or retaliate, they will use that against you as well. Letting you act upset gives them ammo to say "I told you she was unstable". They are truly the product and proof that evil does exist in this world and they are morbidly evil. They are ruthless and unhappy people (if you even want to put them in the same category as human beings). 

Luckily as the sociopath ages, they become sloppy. They have more lies to remember and have more than likely lost many supporters and creditability. It is completely normal for you to want to seek revenge on the sociopath who has ruined your reputation, ruined your career, destroyed you financially and any of the other horrific things they are capable of. But PLEASE LISTEN TO ME ON THIS AS I KNOW FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! PLEASE Do Not Try to get Revenge. YOU CANNOT BEAT A SOCIOPATH. NOTHING CAN OBSTRUCT THE WILL OF AN EVIL, LYING SOCIOPATH. YOU MUST REMEMBER THESE CREATURES HAVE NO CONSCIOUS. THEY DO NOT FEEL GUILTY. THEY ARE UNABLE TO LOVE.UNLIKE NARCISSIST A SOCIOPATH IS NOT EVEN CAPABLE OF LOVING THEMSELVES.
If you are a Normal person, with a heart. You can't win against something made purely of hatred and now as an adult is pure evil. Remember a sociopath doesn't do hateful things to protect themselves because they have experienced pain in their life. They do HATEFUL things because they simply like to see the pain in others eyes. They feel proud if they can breakdown a strong person. If the person has accomplished many things the sociopath is even prouder of their evil work. SOCIOPATHS ARE EVIL. THEY DONT ALL KILL AND THEY ARE NOT ALL SERIEL KILLERS. BUT THEY ARE ALL RUTHLESS HATEFUL LIARS. THEY ARE TERRIBLE MOTHERS WHO VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY HURT THEIR OWN CHILDREN, ELDERLY PARENTS AND ANYONE ELSE.  Everyone to the sociopath is prey, ready to be used and abused.

My suggestion is get as far away from them as you can. Leave everything you had with them behind. I have fought for my child and lost because the sociopath is so convincing in court. She is a woman also.  What I have learned that if You give them enough rope, they will hang themselves eventually.
The sociopath that targeted me for so long, has hung herself. Metaphorically speaking. She has lost any support within community. Everyone knows from dealing with her she is nothing more than an old washed up druggie. Unreliable, dishonest, scandalous. My child hates her now and lives with me. It took years to get to this point. But I left the whore alone and she used up all her resources. She even had the nerve to try to come back to me and as for help. I laughed at her. She looked like an old bag lady. She lost all her looks. She looks 70 and she is in her 40's. Everyone that sees her tells me how horrible she looks. My child says she took them to the stores with a flip flop and high heel on she was so whacked out in drugs.

She is a loser,  it will take time but I promise revenge against a sociopath is not the answer,  they are so self destructive. Just let them hang themselves. They will. That is a fact.

The Ruthless Blamer - sociopaths

They may realize that blaming is how they control others to harm the targets they viciously attack, often family members or former love interests."

Sociopaths may be especially aware of the risk that people who they have used in order to abuse others might even turn against them, especially those who might be greatly angered by how they were manipulated into participating in such vindictive, malicious  and harmful activities against others. People like to blame others. Sociopaths have mastered it. They are the truly evil that lives amongst us, and drains our energy. Sociopaths are much like leeches and ticks. They will attach themselves to you and feed off you until you are sucked dry of everything. 

Sociopathic abusers often engage in distortion campaigns to control and manipulate others to believe lies about their target, so they will have false beliefs about the victim. It's called vilifying the victim. By the time the victim is aware of it, he or she may have been routinely trashed and lied about for several years to the point that anything he or she says or does will somehow be interpreted as evidence of them being the problem.

Many of the sociopaths recruit others to help them, typically using lies, exploitations,  and other people’s own experiences to convince them that they should help ruin another person’s life.  They are often called them the “minions” of the sociopath. Some of these minions later realize that they were used to harm innocent people and end up feeling very bad about their own actions. But they remain afraid of sociopath and what the sociopath may do to them if they confront the sociopath. So these people rarely will admit to what the sociopath did. In fear that they will be the next "victim" of the evil malicious sociopath 

My Ex Wife - Satan's Best Creation Yet...

Being the victim of a vindictive, evil and malicious female sociopath, I am aware of exactly how they operate. Considering I married this evil whore twice, and had a child with her. It wasn't until she was having an affair with a man 30 years older than her for 5 years, when I realized how evil this blonde bitch was. She would project and blame me for what she, herself would do; i.e., accuse me of being negative. When she is the most negative person I have ever met in all my 47 years of living on this
earth.  She would gaslight me into believing that when i had a normal reaction to something she 
would do, like being angry and hurt because of her lying and stealing from me, breaking promises to our child to be with her lover, or cheating, she would act as if my reaction was the problem and there 
Was something wrong with me. Thats when I would call her out on her inappropriate and unacceptable behavior. By confronting this soulless monster, I was accused by her of being the 
abnormal. I was the one who is too sensitive, and not acting like a man for being hurt. I was one with the problem. I was the bad guy, I was critical, or always focusing on the negative. 

This is part of the head-fuckery that she put me through. Acting inappropriately, unacceptable, and 
downright abusive, and then trying to turn it around to make it my fault. It's adding insult to injury at that point. Not only did my ex wife intentionally cause pain that I never deserved, all while denying 
that she ever did anything at all. She would try to make it my fault,  she wanted me to blame myself for something that supposedly didn't happen. Yes, re-read that. That is how illogical it is. She wanted to make sure that people thought I was the reason that the relationship failed. When the truth is the there never was a relationship. I wasn't in a relationship with a loving caring human being. I had been manipulated and led to believe I was in a relationship. But now I realize everything about her was fake, unauthentic and a lies. I was conned like many others before me. I can't really say I ever had a relationship with  my monster of an ex wife. There was never a relationship to begin with. I never had a chance. I never saw what happened until it was too late. And now an innocent child was involved.  

I knew it would only get worse from there. And I was right. It's been 8 years since separation and 5 since we were divorced and I still am harassed by her everyday. She uses our child to get things. It worked for a little while but I stopped feeling guilty. I knew what kind of man I was. I loved my daughter and would do anything for her. So I stopped listening to my whorish ex wife's bullshit, calling me a dead beat because I wouldn't give her $250 for gift card she supposedly bought my child's school teacher for Christmas gift.  I am a dead beat for her crap decisions. Knowing she didn't give any gift card. Just another scheme to get more money from me. As of the $3500 monthly in
support is not enough..

I was trapped by this evil monster of a female for so long. I didn't know how to stand up for myself. I didn't know how to get her to leave me alone.  I use to just give her the money. So she would leave me alone.  That was until I met my amazing wife now. We have been together for 5 years. She has stayed with me, even tho my ex wife has targeted her, ruined her reputation. She has stuck it out with me.. She taught me to stand up for myself. My ex wife is unemployed and a loser, and my new wife is the woman who made me see that I was not a piece of shit, my ex claimed I was. That I had more power than I knew. I had just been so broken down my evil bitch ex wife that I lost all confidence. I had been so attacked by her, that I was afraid.
I was afraid of what she may do to my child. Or what she would tell my child lies to make her hate her dad.
But now I am finally free of this psychopath. I give all the credit to my wife now. She stood up to the monster, and that is something no one would do.  It takes a strong person to stand up to any sociopath. But if the person has a healthy mind, and is strong and confident, the sociopath may destroy their reputation but never can hurt their self worth. My exwife would like to believe she is in control. She knows she has lost all control of me. I dont respond to her text.  I ignore her.  My new wife tries to keep peace for my daughters sake, but the ex is so evil there will never be peace.  I had so many years taken away from my life because of my ex wife,

So now I live everyday to the fullest. I know my ex is miserable and she makes her family miserable. And she wants me to be miserable. And wants my wife out of the picture. But that's never going to happen. I feel we beat the sociopath. We did the impossible. By working together, and being a team, and backing each other up. My wife now and me couldn't be happier - well we might be happier if my ex vanished ....