Psychotic Bitch

Isn't this the damn truth. Still not sure if it was worth all the financial problems, emotional issues, and having to pay a drug user 3000 monthly so she can buy pills and crap. 

Not to mention the fact when you go no contact and refuse to acknowledge them, they still continue to text every day as if you are on "good" terms with them. DELUSIONAL. SOCIOPATHS ARE DELUSIONAL. Living in their own fantasy world they have made up. Since reality for them is so ugly and miserable. 

We didn't co-parent when we were married. Why would we start how. Crazy bitch 

Psycho ex with borderline personality disorder

   Psycho Ex Wife or Mentally ill? 

If you are divorced or married and you ex has doesn't call and text you a million times today just to tell you crazy lies about your children in order to get a reaction out of you. Consider yourself lucky. Not all psycho ex wife's are sociopaths. Some may show traits but they may actually have a mentally illness. Such as borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, and schizoaffective disorder.  All these types often project there own issues and onto the people in their life. They rarely take responsiblity for their life, their actions and their mistakes. 

When you have children with these types the situation can be even worse. For you and you children. The children grow up in 

environment where their needs are often neglected. They are often left at home alone for hours or even days. They are left with relatives. Home is not a place of safety for them. It's an unstable place, filled with unstable people. 

When a woman has so much hatred for her ex husband she focuses much of her life trying to make his life hell. She uses parental alienation to turn his children against. By never letting the children see their father (the only stable person in their life). Of course mom tells the kids -"dad said he couldn't get you this weekend, he rather be with his girlfriend or new family". This is mentally hurting the children. They feel unwanted and unloved. They feel rejected by their father. Their mother is never around. The mentally ill mother doesn't see her dysfunctional behavior. She only sees rage. 

What can the father do? He world full time, he is paying the crazy ex child support and doesn't have time to take this unemployed woman to court. Yet she rarely let's him see the kids. 

When the kids get older the father can only hope that they see their mother for what she is and what she has done. And can make the decision to come see him without their mothers permission.

Even when the ex wife remarries and moves on she may still harass her ex husband. Why? Because she wants control.

So is the ex wife mentally ill or is she a sociopath? The way she acts can make it hard to know. But here are signs that you are dealing with a sociopath and not a mentally ill person. 

IS SHE A SOCIOPATH OR MENTALLY ILL —

1. The sociopath will make up lies and spread rumors, make up lies, try to ruin her ex's reputation, she will also target her ex's new wife. And make not only her ex's life hell, but also his new wife by spreading lies and rumors. SOCIOPATHS ARE NOTORIOUS FOR SLANDER AND DEFAMATION. 

 

2. After making up lies about her ex, the sociopath plays the victim. Whatever she has done to the ex (stalked, harassed,character assassination) she accuses the ex of doing to her. 

3. Sociopaths are pathological liars. They will lie even when the truth is in their best interest. They will lie about the children to their ex. Going as far as saying that one of the children has cancer or has to have surgery. Just to waste her ex's time. The lie for no reason. In fact the sociopath hasn't even taken the children to the doctor in years. 

4. Sociopaths speak fluently. Under pressure Normal people can get tongue tied and shows signs of being nervous. NOT THE SOCIOPATH. The have an overly complex speech and writing in order to look clever and often is contradictory from one sentence to the next. 

5. The Sociopath Feels They are Entitled to the Best of Everything and Expects everyone to give her what she wants. 

6. The Sociopath Twists Conversations to Suit her own Agenda. She diverts conversation to gain moral or intellectual higher ground—when stumped, changes the subject or gets angry.

7. The sociopath is an Energy Vampire. She drains her victims of energy, life, time, money, and vitality. With persistent harassment and constant drama. 

8. The Sociopath is Unreliable and Irresponsible. Sociopaths break promises. They lie. They hate responsibility. They take credit for everyone else's hard work. 

Obsessed, Jealous, Sociopathic Females

How can you get a sociopath to leave you alone? 

So you have established the NO CONTACT rule. You do not return any text or calls from the sociopath. You have moved on with your life and remarried, as has the sociopath. So why is she/he still harassing you every day with novel long text messages? The sociopath just won't get it, that you want nothing to do with them. You have figured out that every word the sociopath speaks is a lie. The more the sociopath tries to make you feel bad and guilty - the less compassion you have for whatever it is the sociopath is saying. You know the sociopath and all their tactics. You have heards all the lies, felt their wrath, and you have suffered because of what they have done to you and your family. You aren't falling for the sociopaths guilt trips, and lies anymore. So why won't the sociopath move on?

First off when there are children involved it gets even more complicated.. The female sociopath does not have any problem using the children as pawns or objects to try to continue to manipulate the man (the father of her children). She thinks because she "produced" children with him (more than likely she didn't produce any children with him naturally). 

When there are children involved it gets infinitely more complicated. Especially in separations and divorces. The female sociopaths have no difficulty (remember no remorse, guilt or pity for anybody) in using the children as pawns or objects to try to continue to manipulate the man.

The sociopath has one reason to keep harassing you... You share kids with the monster... But many people are divorced and share children, and they are able to share custody and have minimal contact. NOT THE SOCIOPATH. The sociopath will find every reason to contact you every day, regarding the kids. There is always something. It never ends. You are to your wits end with it. You have distanced yourself as much as you can. You have even been forced to distance yourself from your children because the sociopath gives you an ultimatum... Either respond and play the sociopaths game or be punished and not see your kids. You have slowly accepted this. And you don't see your kids because it's how the sociopath thinks they are "punishing" you. The sociopath hates you and your new wife more than they love their children. So if that means that the children have to be hurt, in order to hurt you then the sociopath is fine with that..

Remember you are dealing with a person with no morals, no remorse and no concerns for anyone but themselves.. They are mean, hateful, vengeful, obsessed, ruthless, and bitter..

So if you are not acknowledging the sociopath, you have no contact with her/him, then why won't they just GO AWAY?!?

It is because Sociopaths often try to control every aspect of their victims lives. Especially if you share children. They believe they have the right to control your for the rest of your life. 

That's how distorted their reality is! No one has the right to control anyone else. Sociopaths see you as "their property.” 

A good example of this is when a woman becomes unhinged when her ex begins dating or gets remarried — even if she’s already moved onto to another victim...or husband... She doesn't believe you should ever move on... (But it's ok in her screwed up brain to cheat on you, lie and then move on, but you aren't allowed to have a life after her) Yeah that makes a lot of sense...

Manipulation by using Children - sick sociopaths

Sociopaths lives are empty. They don't have real meaningful relationships with anybody. They pretend to care about others - only because it benefits them in some way. A sociopath is not mentally ill, they are disordered, they do not think the way "normal" people think. Their thinknng is distorted, they realize what they are doing is wrong, they simply don't care. Sociopaths  know exactly what they are doing – they know that they are lying, stealing and they enjoy it. They are proud when they have manipulate someone who smarter or more successful than them. 

So why can't they be reformed? The answer is simple. They do not want to be reformed. They are hard wired to hurt, win, and lie. They will never change or be reformed. If you try to help them, they hate you more. 

Sociopaths are unable to love or be loved. They use manipulation, lies and deceit to trick someone into believing they love them. So what the other person is experiencing when involved with a sociopath is not love. Its infatuation.

The other person doesn't understand that they are being manipulated and brain washed until it's too later. 

Sociopaths LOVE to waste your time. Example: if you share children with the sociopath, and you are divorced from the sociopath — the children are older (say 13 and 16). You are able to communicate with your children and your children communicate with you. The sociopath just can't stand that you and your children are able to talk without her being the middle man (woman). The children always text you or call when they need to know something or ask you something. Basically the sociopath creates drama just because it waste your time. Once you "get" this and realize that No Contact is the only way to go. Your life becomes much easier. The sociopath will always try but just stand your ground and never give in to her bullshit. 

Once the kids are adults - then what will she do? Believe me she will find something to bother you about. Continue to ignore her and act as if she doesn't exist. Her life is crap and not worth acknowledging...

Sociopath and their games

• They like to retain control
• They do not like exposure
• They are secretive because of the above
• They do not think that they have done anything wrong
• In  their own mind, they would prefer to shift the blame onto you. They never take ownership for any of the shit they do..
• If you take them back, they will pretend to have changed for a little while. But they haven't changed. They start to cheat and lie again. They take their abuse up a notch or two. 
• There lack of an answer is a clear indication they are lying. - they are always lying - incapable of the truth 
• They have a sense of entitlement that they can behave in that way - and never face any repercussions. 
• They do not want to go over the past

The most important one of all, is that they like to keep control. They do this by playing tricks and mind games. Keeping you guessing. But if you refuse to play their game then they will move on, and find another victim. 

Even a sociopath who has suddenly discarded you without warning, will not let go of trying to control you. You would think that perhaps they might. Especially if they have found another person to abuse, lie and cheat on. They will pretend that they have good intentions. So they keep you hanging on. This gives them control over you whilst you are waiting for answers. 

Don't fall for their tricks and don't play their games. Cut off all communication. Never respond. Better yet. Get another phone number. Let them text and call you - using your old number. And rarely check it. If the sociopath knows you have blocked or changed numbers. They will seek to find the new number and continue to harass and stalk you and waste your time. 

That's all sociopaths do is Waste our time. So many people have lost so much of their life because of a relationship with a sociopath. And they have to waste time picking up the pieces that the is left after the sociopaths destruction. 

Evil just keeps on being Evil

When you have been targeted by a hateful and vindictive sociopath, you feel alone and isolated. You begin to lose all faith in humanity and people. You start to lose your compassion for others. Because you are on guard with human beings. You have trouble trusting anyone. You don't want to socialize the way you did before you met the sociopath. You prefer to be alone. You prefer to stay in your comfort zone, where you feel safe. 

The sociopath robs you of your sense of emotional security. You feel self conscience inside. When you do go out - you wonder if any of the people around you have heard the nasty rumors the sociopath spread about you. 

Sociopaths can make you feel like the sky is falling.. When it actuality it is not. Nothing is falling. The sociopath is very convincing though. They tell you how everyone hates you. They go to the internet and spread their lies about you. It looks to you as if the sociopath has succeeded in turning others against you. You see people commenting and giving the sociopath support, because they have told others how horrible you were to them. They have even made a blog about you! Ex - If your name is Mary Jane Doe. They have made a blog called Maryjane_doe.com. The title says "My Struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder, and Low Self Esteem". The sociopath is impersonating you - in an unfavorable manner. They have spent an enormous amount of time doing this. Scary... Right? 

This can feel extremely defeating. You realize you are fighting with a monster that is so ruthless, cunning, and methodical – that you will not win. 

So what do you do? Everything you try to do to stop this monster has back fired. 

When a sociopath is targeting you in such a vile way. The only thing you can do is STOP RESPONDING. STOP REACTING AND STOP LOOKING ONLINE TO SEE WHAT THE SOCIOPATH IS SAYING. If you want the site shut down that the sociopath has made up. File a complaint with the domain provider. You can file a report with the police, just so everything is documented. The police probably won't do a lot to help with the site being taken down. You are more likely to be able to get the site taken down by reporting the site. Even though it could take time. In the mean time. Cut off any contact with the sociopath. They are doing these things in order to get a response and attention from you. Don't allow them to take your power like that. 

The sociopath is evil. They will always be evil. They will never change. They cannot be reformed. They see nothing wrong with themselves. They don't care about people. They only care about themselves. Once you refuse to react to them and respond and sever all contact with them. Hopefully they will get bored and move on to another person. 

It's so important that you do not lose your faith in humanity or God. Do not let the sociopath steal your spirit. Do not allow them to turn you into a bitter, defense person. Stay good. Stay hopeful.

You hate what the the sociopath has done. That's understandable. You never want to be like this devil..

Sociopaths Ideology

Sociopath's Ideology....