Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Disordered Individusls with Evil Intent
Evil intentions come from a toxic person who is manipulating AKA a sociopath. It serves the sociopath best to have others involved in their toxic drama games. In these cases, the sociopath uses others in order to drag as many people in possible into the toxic swirl of their schemes as lies. The more people they can manipulate, the more power or more gratification they feel. A sociopath does not want to work toward any resolutions. They only want to “stir the pot” to cause more conflict and drama.
It is helpful to remember that there are two kinds of people in the world. People with Good Intentions and people with Bad Intentions. The people with evil intent create and maintain the bad patterns in
the first place because it gratifies them to manipulate in order to get what they want, or to and make others feel bad in order to get what they want. The evil intentioned person suffers from a personality disorder. There 4 types of major types of Personality Disorders
Anti-Social Personality Disorder (APD) • Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) • Borderline
Personality Disorder (BPD) • Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
Disordered people with Evil or Bad intentions need to have a willing and interactive accomplice. In order to avoid becoming caught in the middle of the drama that the individual with bad intentions has. You must never accept or believe any information the disordered person feeds you — and never pass it along. Do Not get involved!
You must remember that they do not want to do anything that is helpful. They are not looking to resolve conflict (even if they act like they are distraught over the conflict) They only pretend to be concerned but that is not the case — the opposite is true. They pretend in order to make the person they are targeting look as if they are the incompetent one, or as if it is that person who is “disordered and dysfunctional” — not them. If you remain neutral and give no opinion on the matter. Hopefully they will stop trying to bait you into spreading gossip about the person. They will more than likely stop talking to you in general. Because they see you are not going to feed into the bullshit, therefore you serve no purpose to them.
If you must deal with a disordered person w/evil intentions, to avoid becoming a target yourself — show no interest in gossiping with them, always stay grounded and never take sides.
Avoid saying anything to the person with bad intent that may give them the impression that you are willing to pass the gossip and information along to anyone. Make sure the sociopathic/disordered person knows that you have nothing to offer them. In doing so you may be able to stop them or at least discourage them from dragging you in their conflicts and gossiping. They will start to look for someone else to manipulate and put in the middle of all their drama.